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post #21 of 207
Okay so turns out pink swollen legs can be caused by tight pink pants :...took my pants off put my feet up for two hours and my legs are back to "normal"..didn't even realize my pants were cutting off my circulation.
post #22 of 207
Welcome to all of the new babies! Congratulations Dandylion, Lisahepp, Coopsmama, Hellokitty and Freethinker!! Wonderful!

Ds is home today. We let him watch the superbowl. We have to go to MIL's to watch it since we don't have TV and ended up having a small party. So fun. He's been in the bathtub while I've been trying to catch up here!

Dh is traveling this week (back to Canada) He had to drive, so I'm instructed not to go into labor since he'll miss it! I'm not really even close, though--BH, nothing else. I'm betting it'll be right around my due date...so I'm just waiting and kicking back.

We have had some growing pains with ds lately. His behavior has been really "off". We had a family meeting after dh and I figured out some new boundaries, and that seems to be helping. It was a tough weekend, though.

Shannon, a friend of mine has a baby with reflux. She's had success with cranio/sacral therapy and also uses a baby bjorn or a sling to hold him constantly upright. Good luck. Also, dh is allergic to dust, bedrooms are the worst, esp. with carpeting and bedding. You can get stuff to sprinkle on the carpet and vacuum up that'll help, as well as an air filter. We run one in the bedroom constantly and also have a HEPA filter installed on our heating system. That has helped. Dh also doesn't eat any dairy and that has helped his allergies tremendously.

Hugs to you all--new mamas and those still waiting! Good luck to those of you in early labor, being induced and/or trying to make c-section plans. Can't wait to hear more birth stories.

Hope you're all doing well. Hang in there! susan
post #23 of 207
Morning all

This thread is always hopping. We are a bunch of chatty cathys! :LOL

Congratulations Kitty and Kristen! Welcome to the world little babies

I'm heading out the door so I don't have time for personals, but wanted to pop in and see how the Feb. gang was doing Have a great day!!!
post #24 of 207
Waayheeeyy!!!! Congrats Kitty. Max is gorgoeus. I read your birth story too. Sounds quick, but painful.

I have been having some pretty intense ligament twinges in the groin area lately. They got really bad last night, and I had a couple of really intense contractions right on top of another.
I have also been so, so tired. I am the kind of person that does well on 4-5 hrs a night, but now I am sleeping for the whole of RI!

Shannon, I have no advice for you on relieving Molly's distress.
I do know what it is like to have a baby that doesn't sleep at all. Just try to get as much help as you can to get through this period.

Susan, glad that you have resolved the "growing pains" with ds, and this week is a little easier on you, especially since Dh is travelling.

Ok mamas. Hope that you are all well and resting lots.
Joy, am thinking about you and sending restful vibes your way.

XX Jasmine
post #25 of 207
Hi everybody - wow, i've been gone for a few days and soooo much has happenned. things really are cooking now!

congratulations kitty, lisa, stephanie, and kristen!! woo hoo!

elaina - i have to apologize. i just keep laughing over the pink pants thing. i'm sorry, i'm sure it was scary before you realized what was causing the problem...

heve - sorry about the shower woes. i second shannon on the primo viaggio. we have one and loved it for james. we don't use the stroller really and it is pretty heavy, but the car seat carry along thingy works well for us (and did with ds too).

shannon - sorry about the reflux/allergies. hope you find something that works. mia has something going on -gas? she needs to sit upright a lot too and hates, hates sleeping on her back. our compromise is she sleeps on her side and i sleep face to face with her to make sure she's ok. on the ebm you got, are you gonna be able to get more or was that a one time kind of thing? i wish so much that we could help.

joy - hope you are feeling well and resting for the big day which seems to be coming... slowly and frustratingly but it's coming!

susan - is ds's behavior thing just age or a reaction to the coming baby? do they have reactions to new babies at his age (versus, like, a two year old)? sending you waiting out the week vibes!

tricia - yay for chloe! james has not regressed yet with the toilet training, but is not as far along as chloe either. yesterday though, he did tell me he had to go potty before doing it (before, he has said "mommy, i pee pee" right as he does it. yesterday, he galloped around the apartment yelling "potty, potty, potty!" BEFORE he peed. yay!!!).

leta - how horrible! i hope everybody is better soon and that you get some rest.

by the way, is anybody finding that their breasts are, like, ten times normal size? i don't remember them being this outrageously huge with james. i feel like the biggest cow. moo.

we went to two parades this weekend. mia slept through them but james had a good time. happy mardi gras all!

terenia
post #26 of 207
Just a quick check in to subscribe...be back later to read all the posts

Congratulations Kitty!!!
post #27 of 207
Thread Starter 
Shannon do an MDC search on reflux and you'll find several great threads. Molly sounds like classic reflux. One word (ok, 3): prescription Zantac liquid (given several times a day in a small bottle of milk). Ok, understand that I never ever give dd and ds meds and am totally anti-medicine unless needed, but the stuff is great, and I researched the heck out of it and it is really totally safe to boot... MUCH better than some of the alternatives. Second, get a top notch humidifer with a good water filter, etc. Those wee little nose passages dry out so easily, and it is highly likely that she is spitting some milk/acid up into her nose which is making her even more miserable. Dd and ds were snorty stuffed up little ones until they got on Zantac.
post #28 of 207
For the stuffy nose I wanted to suggest Eucalyptus oil in the hunidifier. Helps a lot and some Tea tree oil is great to clease the air. Sorry about all this Shannon.
post #29 of 207
Finally posted our birth story:

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...63#post2641263

terenia
post #30 of 207
Shannon- Yes, wanted to add my 2cents about reflux. DS #1 had reflux and we used Tagamet (very similar to Zantac). Once we got the proper dosage down, it helped tremendously.

I also wanted to say...stop blaming yourself! You are doing everything you can for Molly. You have even managed to get her some breastmilk- which is wonderful! But who knows- maybe even if you were breastfeeding full-time she might still have reflux. My DS was exclusively breastfed and he still had it- so don't just assume that it is due to the formula. Just keep doing what you are doing and trying new things to make her comfortable!

Okay...done with lecture.
post #31 of 207
Tug,

Great birth story! Congratulations again!
post #32 of 207
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by lisabc311
I also wanted to say...stop blaming yourself! //who knows- maybe even if you were breastfeeding full-time she might still have reflux. My DS was exclusively breastfed and he still had it- so don't just assume that it is due to the formula.
Amen sister. Don't blame the formula automatically. Dd and ds had the worst bouts of reflux during the time when they were exlusively breastfed. Oh, AND I wasn't eating any dairy, gluten, soy, garlic, cabbage and related vegetables, tomatoes... hmmm... am I forgetting anything?! Yeah, I pretty much ate rice and salads. Some babies just have reflux, period. It's possible it's not you, it's not the formula, and it's not an allergy. Once you give different formulas a fair shake (e.g., Nutramagin) seek out treatment for reflux.
post #33 of 207
Just checking in. Poor Molly. Reflux is hard - and sleep deprivation is hard too. But others have given great advice - I have nothing to add to it.

My son is still unnamed though I'm determined to name him today. Biggest contenders are Rio Malachai and Ilario Timaeus. He's soooooo different from my first. He sleeps. He nurses hungrily but not angrily. He's calm. DS1 (2 years) is still happy with "his baby" and likes to give him hugs and kisses. He asked us to leave his door open at night - we told him the baby crying might wake him and he said, "leave it open. If I hear the baby cry, I will come, and tell him it's all right, and he will stop crying." (optimist!)

But I'm really down. My chronic illness (CFIDS) has come back full force. I'm really sick, and in a lot of pain, and don't know how to reconcile myself to being sick again. Or how to deal with mothering two children while disabled.
post #34 of 207
TMI warning....
(like there's such a thing as TMI here... but hey)(

So after you lose your mucus plug (lost mine Friday), is it normal to have HUGE amounts of mucusy discharge leaking out of you at all times? I almost wonder if i don't hvae a fluid leak, but its clearish/yellowish, NOT pinkish and i was told a water leak would be pinkish. I swear it feels like a period starting, and i'll go check and jusgt more mucusy looking stuff.

any thoughts?
post #35 of 207
Thread Starter 
Joy, sounds like you're still losing your plug. You can get a big glob, then mucousy/watery discharge after that. In fact some women never get the glob, just that copious, thinned yellowish-to-whitish mucous discharge, which is the plug breaking up slowing and mixing with vaginal secretions.
post #36 of 207
That makes sense Periwinkle. I did get a couple of big globs friday night, that were mucusy and blood tinged.... but that certainly sounds like what i've been having since.....
post #37 of 207
Checking in to subscribe. I'm sorry many of you have such yucky situations.

Shannon, we've got the reflux going on here too, and Hazel is breastfed. It is really hard, I know. Right now, my ped doesn't want to prescribe anything for my poor pukey little one, so we're working on gravity. We have an air filter and a humidifier going, and the head of her basinette propped up, which helps. She also screams bloody murder when we suction her nose, but it helps a lot. The key is to make sure it is really sucking. DH is afraid to put it too far into her nose, or get a really good seal going, so he can never get the stuff out. She hates it when I do it, but I can usually clear her out.

Lasofia, I'm so sorry about the illness. I wish I knew what to say or do that could help. Do you have support from your family. It must be so hard for you mama. Hugs.

Joy, I keep thinking that your baby is coming and everytime I check in, it hasn't come yet! I think it is possible that you might be having a fluid leak. If you think it is, your midwife can check with a test strip. Good labor vibes to you!

Periwinkle, Thanks again for the hugs and advice. Today is Hazel's due date, so kind of a special day for us. She is 6 pounds 5 ounces! We took more pictures of her little face filling out, and I'll try to post them later today. I almost want to take a 40 week belly pic too, just for laughs. I'm glad to hear that it took a few weeks for your little ones to learn to BF, but they did. I keep worrying that she'll never learn. Her last feeding she only took 32mL at the breast. It is soooo challenging. But I keep hoping that as she gets bigger, she'll catch on. If I have to pump for a year to get the milk into her, I will, I just hope I don't. Thanks for keeping us updated on the VBAC/scheduled section decision. I hope whichever way you decide brings you peace, and that you have a great birth.

terenia, My boobs are so big that it makes me want to cry. This is the part of breastfeeding that I hate. Currently a 32G. G for Ginourmous. And actually, lopsided, since I had surgery on the left breast and it doesn't produce as much milk. So the right one is like a full cup size larger. Well, in a year or so they'll be normal again, just hang in there.

Susan, sorry you had a rough weekend with ds. Melanie went through a rough patch before Hazel was born, I think she could sense the anticipation and attention that the baby was getting (even before birth) but she seems to have settled down a bit now. Hopefully your new boundaries will help.

Well folks, off to update Hazel's website and check Ebay. I can't believe none of you have outbid me yet! Gotta read those new baby birth stories too. Happy Monday everyone!
post #38 of 207
Thanks everyone for those votes of confidense. I think I'm really needing them, I also think I'm starting to get a little PPD and for sure the sleep deprivation can't be helping with it. Went to the doctor today, I called the receptionist and when I told her she was having trouble breathing at night she asked me to come in and have her checked just to be safe-made sense to me. Anyway, the doctor was actually very good, especially with Molly, she thinks the reflux is the reason for the stuffy nose (as someone else suggested) she said if she hates the suctioner thingy to just put a couple drops of salinex in there and usually that will cause them to sneeze some of the mucous loose. She also suggested switching Molly to a Soy formula, while we were there Molly was doing her typical back arching and such and she said it looked like she had stomach cramps and gas, also, she's still not gaining any weight so she said while she agrees with me that we haven't really given what we;re presently doing much time to see if it will work, she said if cows milk was the culprit we would see a huge difference very quickly, so off I went to the drug store and came out armed with Ovol drops for the gas, soy formula for her tummy and saline drops for her wee nose. She said she wants to see her again on Thursday and if there is no improvment we will go to Zantac (she said we could medicate now, but then we wouldn't know if the simple formula change had helped)
Then I stopped at our consignment store and picked up a few more newborn size sleepers--I hadn't bought many cause I figured she wouldn't fit them long but since at 2 weeks old she's only an ounce heavier than when she was born (6lbs4oz) and since she pukes all over everything she wears, it was getting really tiresome doing laundry twice a day! Also picked up a baby trekker--like a snuggli, but canadian made, better quality, sort of more like a sling.
I have to say, I fed her while I read the posts and gave her the anti-gas drops before and usually she starts crying when I try to burp her and she's sitting here quite peacefully right now and looks like she's going to drift off to sleep--so I think I will get out my new baby trekker and try to get something done around here!!
post #39 of 207
Hmm, more posts since I started to write mine, Lasofia, I know what you're going through, my arthritis never did go into remission through pregnancy and I can feel it starting to flare badly which scares the heck out of me! I see my rheumatoligist this week and since I'm not able to breastfeed will at least be able to go back on some power drugs, but I'm afraid the damage done to my joints in this 2 yr battle without my meds that actually work has done some major perminent damage (especially to my hips and my hands)
Leslie, isn't that funny, Molly is 6-5 today too!!! and her due date is the end of this week--so I'd say little Hazel is doing pretty darn good!!! I don't know if it would help your breast feeding battle or not, but if you like I can mail you out my Lact-aid--at least then you can supplement her at the breast--as I say, I have NO idea if it would help your situation or not, but it's here and I'm not using it and never did get to use it--we never even got that far!
post #40 of 207
Shannon,
That is so kind of you. How much do you want for it? I'm certainly willing to give it a try, since this has been such a struggle! LMK, and I can PM you my address. I'm sorry to hear your RA is flaring, that's the pits.
Lesley
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