Okay, I just pm'd you back Arduinna but I am going to try again here to see if I can get my thoughts out properly for everyone!
Yes, to the last post, that is partly what I amlooking for probably. Basically I am looking , I guess, for something for her to read/use to not just help her to know that all this is normal, but that it is a very positive thing that is happening to her. As pagans,w e tend to celebrate life's changes and cycles and that is the direction I want to come at all this from. I could be wrong, but I think generally books directed at the girls tend to be very "this is what's happening and we may not like it, but we're women so that's the way it is" type stuff. I want this to be an opportunity for her to feel better about herself and proud of where she's going; I think some pagan resource for that would be muchbetter than a mainstream one. And would address her interests better.
Back to The Goddess in Every Girl, the description of the book is this:
"Helps teenage girls make direct contact with their inner Goddess energy.
* Includes guided meditations, visualizations, journaling exercises, Goddess games and rituals.
* Represents a culturally diverse selection of Goddess personifications including Egyptian, Afro-Cuban, Asian, North American, Greek, and Roman.
* Complete astrological tables for Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars enable girls to find their personal goddess allies. "
(I'm not sure if I'm allowed to do that.) So that description kind of appealed to what I was looking for, but you never know with those descriptions...and there was only one review on Amazon, so...
THanks for bearing with me!