I wish I could have voted more than once... With my 2y/o ds I found a LM, in an ILLEGAL state, and paid $2000 out of pocket and then bought birth supplies. UNFORTUNATELY she got spooked 9 days before my EDD and backed out. I never saw any of that money returned.

I then secured the services of a CNM, at 39+wks, who's fee was $4500. My ins co paid her the standard global OB fee and she was happy with the payment (close to $3000, I believe) considering she was "on the job" for only 2½wk prior to the birth.
2½yrs later I am using the same CNM and her fee has risen to $5500. Ugh! My new insurance will cover 80% of their "resonable and customary" global OB fee... Which I have negotiated to $5800... I am responsible to $200 copay and then 20%. Which totals $1020. Holy bat-crap!! (I never figured out the exact amount before!) BUT because I am a "reapeat offender" and my MW was compensated so generously last time around she's agreed to take the $4480 as complete payment from my ins co and I won't have to pay anything.
AJSGIRL--- It's NYS mandate that if an ins co provides maternity coverage that they must cover the fees of your MW at the "reasonable and customary" rate. you might have to negotiate a bit with them on that rate... Mine came up $1100. And never EVER take no as an answer, especially when talking to the people who answer the phone at the ins co. They are nothing more than answering machines, in the grand scheme of the ins co world. Always talk to supervisors or case managers, keep a running log of whom you talk to, when you talk to them, what was said and ask for direct phone #'s, employee ID's, ect... Makes for much easier time when you have to call back and follow things up.
When I told my ins co that they were putting my health and welfare at stake by not covering my MW and making it cost prohibitive for me to seek the care I needed, deserved and was entitled to my law they jumped to make the situation right. I hope that you are able to navagate the ins maze and that your ins co steps up and does the right thing!