I must admit that I agree I'd feel awful if she's been hurt by this. No one should be judged by one incident. I don't agree with what she did... but I know what it is like to do something without thinking and then be judged on something that I already realize I shouldn't have done. She admitted as much when she stopped the bidding on the item.
All of the rhetoric of this thread has been valuable for me, personally; I'll think twice before trying to make a profit (or purchase) off of the hard work and reputation of someone who will not benefit directly. IMHO, this thread stopped being about the actual incident/individual a long time ago and became a valid discussion about ethics in general.

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