Structure - Does every child need it? - Page 2

[momto l&a]

Originally Posted by melissa17s

A couple of years ago, I went to a lecture on Creativiy, and research presented was based on studying the childhood of famous, creative individuals. All of the people studied came from homes with out rigid structure; in fact, most lacked stucture and children were often required to entertain themselves. I think laid back parents often have laid back kids. I also agree that consistency does not equal structure.

I so have to agree with what you heard in that lecture. I love to read mainly bio's and autobio's and most of the creative people when children where left to their own. Take Beatrix Potter for example, and look at her books.

I think structure really does in the imagination.
I think a routine is good but forget the structure unless its child led.

[ShadowMom]

I don't understand the difference between structure and routine in the sense that it's being referred to in this thread. I mean if I make a point of taking my kid to the park in the afternoons (as long as he likes going) that surely isn't inhibiting his creativity is it?