Mothering › Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Birth plan
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

Birth plan  

post #1 of 5
Thread Starter 
Hi! Just looking for some input. This is the summary of our choices, and while I'm not asking for criticism of the choices themselves, I am wondering if it's too long. If so, how can I condense it without losing anything? Including headers, it prints out on one page with 1 inch margins. Thoughts?



We understand that there may be situations in which our choices may not be possible, but we hope that you will help us to move toward our goals as much as possible and to make this labor and birth a great experience. We do not want to replace the medical personnel, but instead want to be informed of any procedures in advance, and to be allowed the chance to give informed consent. Please feel free to ask if you have any questions or comments. Thank you!

Regarding labor:
All procedures to be discussed with myself and/or my husband prior to administration.
Unless indicated by fetal distress, vaginal exams and fetal monitoring should be intermittent, not constant.
I do not want to have labor induced artificially if there is no fetal distress.
If induction becomes necessary, I would prefer to attempt alternative methods, such as nipple stimulation and walking, before pitocin or other medical interventions are attempted.
I would prefer narcotic pain relief to epidural, and do not want an epidural offered to me. However, if I change my mind during the course of labor, I would like to have the option at 5 cm. dilation or beyond.
I feel very strongly that I would like to avoid a cesarean birth. If a cesarean becomes necessary, I would like my husband present. I would also like to be the first to hold our baby, and would like to attempt to breastfeed immediately following birth.
I would rather tear than receive an episiotomy, and I would prefer not to be stitched following either unless absolutely necessary.
I would like the option to labor and deliver in the most comfortable position for me at the time, and would like to use a birthing position which allows gravity to assist in delivery.
I would prefer to deliver the placenta naturally, without the aid of a routine injection of pitocin.

Regarding newborn care:
Unless it is necessary for the health and safety of our child, he or she is to be in the presence of either my husband or myself at all times.
We are refusing the administration of any and all eye ointment for our child, and will sign waivers regarding this.
We are refusing the administration of Vitamin K, injected or oral, unless our child requires surgery, and will sign waivers regarding this.
We are refusing the administration of any vaccinations at the hospital, including but not limited to the Hepatitis B vaccination, and will sign waivers regarding this.
Metabolic testing is permissible, but blood draws should be done in the presence of myself or my husband.
Bathing, evaluation, and testing are all to be done at my bedside, or in the presence of my husband.
We do not plan to circumsize our child.

Regarding feeding:
I plan to breastfeed, and expect to be allowed to do so immediately following birth, barring medical counter-indication.
Please do not give pacifiers, formula, bottles, glucose solution, or plain water to our child.
post #2 of 5
I am doing mine in a slightly larger font to make it easy to read. I have also had it recommended that you put different scenarios on different pages. That way if your labor is progressing normally, you won't have c-section plans on the same page. and newborn info is on its own page. You may have different nurses for newborn care, and your birthing plan is useless to them. anyway, that is what I have had suggested and it makes sense. The other thing I have heard is that bullet points may be appreciated more that full sentences. Nurses have a lot to do so the more concise and to the point, the better.
post #3 of 5
The only thing I would do different is maybe word some things different. For example instead of "I would rather tear than receive an episiotomy, and I would prefer not to be stitched following either unless absolutely necessary."

I would write "No episiotomy. No stitches."

If strange or difficult situations were to arise I would know about them and then be able to tell them, okay do one. Or okay, stitches. I just wouldn't want to leave anything open for them to feel like they can still try to push something or ask "Well, what if?".

I don't know which way would work better. I guess it depends on the attitudes of the caregivers. If they are very open to what you want then things shouldn't be a problem. But if they are pushy and seemingly against what you want I would suggest just being a little bit more blunt: take out all the "I prefer" and "I don't want". That way it comes off more like you have done your homework and have already made up your mind for sure. The way you word things sometimes can make a huge difference. And short and sweet is always best for those who may get impatient and not read the whole thing.
post #4 of 5
i agree wiht sarajane. i wouldnt say "i would prefer this" or "unless necessary, i dont want that". just say no continuous monitoring, no epis, etc.

that said, i think that if you get narcotics they will need to listen to the baby continuously as the drugs can cause the baby's heart rate to drop dangerously. also, if you get narcotics or an epi, you wont be able to move freely.


good luck!
post #5 of 5
Where are you birthing? If in the hospital, I would disagree with the pps and use your original language. Although I don't agree with the attitude you encounter in hospitals, telling medical professionals what to do often makes them defensive and hostile rather than letting them know what you want.
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: Birth and Beyond
This thread is locked  
Mothering › Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Birth plan