huh, I have gaydar, I think...I live in a very gay city (hah! I feel like such a highchooler sayin' that!) and now that i think of it, i feel like i usually know, that is, i rarely wonder about anyone. Dunno if that's actually gaydar, or if that's 'cause it's real easy to tell when your in queer positive space.
and, there's some homophobes in these parts; i could see why people might not be comfortable with what probably felt like a semi-private conversation suddenly hitting the big screen over here in tao without warning.
But, in the spirit of joining the self-outings,