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Clothing battles, part 2!  

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I don't know if anyone remembers my thread on trying to let go of my issues with dd wearing mismatched clothes. I am proud to say, I have gotten past that one! The other day, she went to school in a pink long sleeved shirt with flower trim, and a yellow and white striped skort. :LOL "I know it doesn't match mama, but I LIKE it!" Alright, guess I can't argue with that.

Now the battle has become getting her to pick something weather appropriate. We're at the time of year around here where it's a little chilly in the mornings (low to mid 50s), then by aftrenoon, gets pretty warm (70s). I know we all have different temps at which we feel hot or cold, but I'm pretty sure a turtleneck sweater when its' 70 degress is going to be uncomfortable for almost anyone! I'm cool with letting her pick pants, shorts, capris, skirts, whatever. Any of that will work in this weather. It's when she wants to wear sweaters, turtlenecks or both that drives me batty. I've tried explaining to her that if her jacket feels too hot in the afternoon, so will heavy shirts, but she just doesn't believe me. (even though every afternoon, she gets off hte bus carrying her jacket instead of wearing it because it's too hot!)

Should I just put away all but her lightest weight long sleeved shirts and hope that out of sight=out of mind? Let her wear the blasted sweater and find out for herself it's too hot? (I'd toss a t-shirt in her backpack so she could change later). Something else entirely?
post #2 of 7
I'm on the fence about this one. We always pack up our out of season clothing so that's what I would do. But I don't know if it would really solve anything in your case......well maybe it would if you involved her in the process. Let her pick one cool weather outfit to keep in the closet with the understanding that this is in case you have a change in weather. I'd also keep a lightweight jacket out. 50 degrees feels really cold to me and I'd want a jacket too. If it's lightwieght it won't be a pain for her to carry it instead of wear it when it gets warmer too.


Heather
post #3 of 7
well,unless her health is really ind anger (t-shirt with 010 or so) I'd let her go....she'll sweat terribly and listen to you next time
post #4 of 7
I would probably pack the cold weather stuff away. I just did this with DD, but I made a big thing about hanging up her new sping/summer clothes. And she helped me pack away her winter stuff excpet for sweatshirts which we keep out year round for cooler evenings. She also likes to go clothes shopping and picks out a few new things herself which she is excited about (she needs a whole new summer wardrobe this year since nothing fits her). It helped her with the transition.
post #5 of 7
one word. layers.

Yeah, I'll let my DD wear that purple furry sweater when the forecast says it's going to be 75 or 80 degrees. But I either get her to wear a t-shirt underneath it, or have her bring one along to change into when she gets too hot. Sure, she can wear that heavy corouroy skirt, but why not have these shorts on underneath?
post #6 of 7

Layers

We live on the coast in Central California. Layers are a must around here (for everyone). DD wears a tank top or T-shirt under a long sleeve shirt every day. Mornings are cool, afternoons can be hot but the FOG can always roll in at any moment.
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Originally Posted by myjulybabes
Let her wear the blasted sweater and find out for herself it's too hot? (I'd toss a t-shirt in her backpack so she could change later).
Sounds reasonable to me. (Meaning, it's what I'd do ) Around here, in the springtime, we often change halfway throught the day and then back again, because the a.m. and p.m. are cool and the afternoons can get pretty warm. Why not? This makes more sense to me than suffering through the day feeling either too warm or too chilly.
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