i'm due in July and we decided to announce at christmas. i mailed x-mas gifts with notes "do not open until dec.25th" for my father, who is a musician i sent a book of lullubies. for my mother, who is an avid knitter, i sent a pattern for a cute little baby sweater plus a few balls of yarn. then i just waited for the christmas morning phone call. at first i felt a little silly sending them gifts that i would be getting back (i do expect my dad to burn a cd of lullubies for babe and i do want that little sweater!), but they were so thrilled and surprised that i could tell it was the right way to break the news. they love to tell the storey.
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4/28/05 at 12:16pm





yay!
Me: "Nooo, it's not in the stove" MIL: "OK, it's in the oven." Me: "Yeah...."
Finally she goes, "Oh, a bun in the oven... IS THERE A BUN IN THE OVEN!?!?!?!" then she laughed and cried. By brother had a similar revelation, and my grandma thought it was a cat in the oven. 
We drove from MD to MI to tell her in person - got one of those Hallmark Family Tree things (big metal tree that you can buy and put little picture frames of all of your family members on it) - did pics of the family and framed/hung them. Then, got a really neat little frame and put a picture of a 10 week old baby in utero and hung it on the tree. She opened it, and was looking at all the pictures...saw the baby, and it took her a minute, but she looked at me - and I told her "That's what your grandbaby looks like right now. We'll get you an updated picture come August!"

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