Mothering › Mothering Discussion Forums › Health › Health and Healing › Dental › Caring for a two year old's teeth
New Posts  All Forums:
 

Caring for a two year old's teeth

post #1 of 13
Thread Starter 
Hi,

Pema is almost 26 months now (I wonder when we stop counting the months and just say 2 or 2 and a half?).

Re: her teeth. They look great. Pema in general is very healthy. Still breastfeeding with mom, most/many of her teeth are in (to be honest, I've never even looked in her mouth, but she must be chewing those veggies with something).

We don't give her candy or junkfood. Very little juice. Other than breast milk, she eats mostly veggies, tofu, grains, dried fruit, nuts, fresh fruit, goat milk, cheese. Sometimes I'm a bit concerned about the intense sweetness of the dried fruit and often find myself saying "enough".

We model toothbrushing to her, but have never tried to force a toothbrush in her mouth. She will pick it up and bite the bristles - we don't put any toothpaste on it.

Next week, my wife and I have our annual dental appointment and I am bracing myself for a lecture from the dentist. He is a friend, and has been receptive to my personal wishes to use non-mercury fillings in my teeth. He's somewhat traditional.

Mostly we have followed a pretty non-interventionist approach in our daughter's care. She has never taken any medicine...other than breast milk and love - no vaccinations, no antibiotics, no baby tylenols (she's only had a couple of small colds with mild symptoms).

So I'm wondering what the official ADA line is on kids Pema's age is - and whether I should continue to ignore the party line and what alternative parents out there consider when planning for the long term health of their children's teeth.

Given the above care regimen for Pema's teeth (i.e. avoidance of junk food), perhaps there isn't much cause for concern about a super-structured daily brushing/cleaning session of her baby teeth which will all fall out anyways??

post #2 of 13
Great Post.

I'm hoping for some light in this area too. DS is 18 months and really only just plays with the toothbrush...

Anyone? Anyone?

Kathy.
post #3 of 13
I definitely think that you should get a look at those teeth and start brushing them. There are lots of ways to make brushing more enticing (at our house, when we clean teeth, a message is revealed that can be read by Mommy or Daddy, some people have a song, some people talk about sugar bugs, some people let kids brush their parents' teeth and then trade). Hopefully someone more playful will post with suggestions. Don't give up before you've even started! It won't necessarily be a struggle, but if it is, some battles are worth fighting.
post #4 of 13
Thread Starter 
When did you start putting toothpaste on the brush?
post #5 of 13
My ds is almost 3 ~ I'm not sure when we started with toothpaste but we use Tom's of Maine Silly Strawberry w/out flouride. He loves it!
post #6 of 13
I think we started with a small amount of fluoride-free toothpaste at one year.
post #7 of 13
My dd was and is extremely healthy. She will be five in September and her illnesses have all been mild and I can recount even the colds because of the few there have been. HOWEVER, her teeth are a completely different story. I was the same about the tooth brush until I discovered her decay at 15 months. She had had NO juice at this point, mostly breast milk and healthy foods. EVEN healthy foods can promote decay.
When you go in for your exam, ask the dentist to just take a look at her teeth too. I believe the ADA's rec. is age 2 or at the first sign of a problem or abnormality. Definitely brushing should start as soon as the teeth emerge. I didn't know this at the time my dd's teeth came in....unfortunately.
There's info here in this forum about the ADA and when to start brushing, if you do a search you can come up with a lot of info. I believe in the archives, there is a thread entitled "Start brushing and make it fun"
post #8 of 13
our ds is 16 monthes and hates teeth brushing. we try a cloth or toothbrush, tom's of maine toothpaste and not-he loves the toothpaste, but seems to just want to eat it, so we barely use it. i am wondering too. is this battle worth fighting?? also, any more ideas for teethbrushing made fun? we try to joke around while doing it, but he seems to know what's about to happen. why do little ones not like it?
post #9 of 13
While it sounds like you've been lucky this far, and hopefully will continue to be, I just wanted to echo the others... start brushing now. It's very important, if only to set the habit for the future. Baby teeth are important. My dd now has one cavity, and it is so sad to look at her and notice it. If you read some of the cavity threads, you'll see the anguish of parents who didn't brush their child's teeth, and now they have that reminder every time their child smiles.

Also, don't give her dried fruit as a regular snack. My child didn't have cavities until about 19 months, and I'm pretty sure her cavity is related to the dried fruit we'd been giving her.

Our best trick for brushing came from a friend... pick something the kid likes (butterflies, frogs, turtles, dogs, whatever) and get excited and say "whoa, you've got a butterfly in your mouth! Let's get it out!" and really make a big deal out of it. Brush until they close their mouth again, then say "hey, there's another one!" or some such. For us it's become a nice way of summing up the day, because our daughter likes having the people she met that day in her mouth. me: "who's in there?" dd: "Nicole" me:"let's get Nicole out! Open wide" <brush brush brush, mouth closes> me: "who else is in there?" dd: "Papa" me: "ok, open up!" <brush brush brush>. We do all this with dd laying on the ground and the person doing the brushing sitting on the floor. The first couple times dd thought it was weird, but now it's completely normal.
post #10 of 13
Yes, baby teeth fall out, but some not until your child is a teenager. Just because they eventually fall out doesn't mean they're not important (plus, if they do become decayed, they still hurt and need to be fixed just like permanent teeth). They're important for speech, chewing, maintaining space for permanent teeth, aesthetics, etc.

It's not just junk food that causes decay - ANY carbohydrate will do it. Pretzels, for example. Bread. Cereal. The decay-causing bacteria feed on the simple carbs (ie sugars) and produce acid, which leads to decay.

I agree, start asap and be creative! after a few months she won't remember a time when you didn't brush. You don't need to use fluoride toothpaste or any toothpaste, really (although fluoride can reverse very early decay).

HTH
post #11 of 13
post #12 of 13
Quote:
Originally Posted by malamamama
My dd was and is extremely healthy. She will be five in September and her illnesses have all been mild and I can recount even the colds because of the few there have been. HOWEVER, her teeth are a completely different story. I was the same about the tooth brush until I discovered her decay at 15 months. She had had NO juice at this point, mostly breast milk and healthy foods. EVEN healthy foods can promote decay.
i'd like to ditto this, except my ds is 2. i strongly urge you to get in there and brush her teeth, help her learn how to do it, and start good teeth brushing habits now.
post #13 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thanks for all the people who have contributed to this thread. Seems Pema has gotten the message because suddenly she likes to be part of the toothbrush ritual. It's a bit hard to keep up with as she isn't confined to 3 "meals" a day, but likes to frequently snack (she's a very high energy, active little gal). But she brushes at least every evening, if not more.

Jordan
New Posts  All Forums:
 
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: Dental
Mothering › Mothering Discussion Forums › Health › Health and Healing › Dental › Caring for a two year old's teeth