books to explain death to children after dad died

[juicylucy]

I posted a few weeks ago that my friend's husband died. I want to get her a book that will help her explain the death to her almost three year old son. He may be too young for it now, but maybe in a couple of years. She really wants him( and his 8 month old sister) to remember his (wonderful) dad. His death was very sudden and completely unexpected, and my friend is struggling on how to explain it to him. I have told her to put pictures up of him, and talk about him, and not to be afraid to grieve in front of him. Is there anything else you can suggest? Thanks.

[rachelle-a-tron]

Sad Isn't Bad: A Good-Grief Guidebook for Kids Dealing With Loss by Michaelene Mundy


When Dinosaurs Die: A Guide to Understanding Death by Marc Brown


Click on the titles for the amazon.com info on these books. My Grandfather died 3 months ago & both of these books have helped the kids in our family.

Also try calling the local hospice, they will have tons of info for you & can maybe even give you some books.

Sending this Family lotsa love & strength.

[lisamarie]

http://69.20.14.30/discussions/showt...24#post2847024
Here is a suggested reading list that might be helpful in your search.

My ds was 3 yo when my first dh died. We attended a family grief and loss support group that was so essential for us and guided us through our grief. I don't know if there is anything like this in your area, but as the previous poster mentioned, the local hospice could help you or her in this search.

Hugs~

Lisa

[L.J.]

When my dad died, we got great information from the funeral home. They had some really good pamphlets and also knew about some grief groups.

I've also heard that it's important to keep big pictures of the person around so kids can see him and know that he is, in a way, still part of the family.

[applejuice]

When my DH died, the therapist we went to had a book called Gone from My Sight.

I am sure a goood public library will have some good books to recommend.

[Ms. Mom]

Also, Lisamarie has put together these wonderful resources http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=264410

[momto l&a]

I would think a scrap book (using copies of pictures so if the book get loved to death the original wasnt ruined) the kids could look at whenever they want of their dad would be very special to them.

[Shirley Ujest]

Badger's Parting Gift The lessons young friends learn from their old friend Badger after he dies. Perfect for younger children.

Mountains of Tibet a wonderful book for those who beleive in reincarnation and choices.

The Next Place very comforting for little ones ( and parents) of where does the spirit-soul go and what is it like.

[lisamarie]

Shirley~

Thanks for listing those wonderful books!!!

Warmly~

Lisa