Ideas on breaking the ice... - Page 2

[Katt2005]

Oh yeah, they were done first, but when we started dating she realized I worked with him, and then decided, WE had been going on for a while and he cheated with me and tons of junk like that. She *knows* thats not true, but I suppose it helps her sleep at night, to think it wasn't partially her and his fault. just mine. Cause I am so *whatever word fits here* that I can just walk in the room and break up a perfectly happy home. :LOL

[SillyTreeFairy]

Sorry Katt. I know its rough. Just stick to your guns, and let him know how this is affecting you. If he gets the weekday visitation and right of first refusal for babysitting, then what does it matter if he has to fight her? The kids will be taken out of the middle of a fight and can be focased on properly and not as a negotiating tool. My dh's x was nuts and still can be. But having it set so she can't pull those stupid tricks was a relief. She didn't want my dh, but by golly, he couldn't be happy because she was miserable.