In the books Superimmunity for Kids, Healing Ear Infections Naturally, and another that I forget the name of, they go into all of this discussion on EFA's (essentially fatty acids like Omega 3 and 6) and their effect on the immune system (they boost the immune system by acting on prostaglandins) and all 3 books suggest supplementing your baby/toddler/childs diet with EFA's if they are susceptible to illness, have dry skin etc and/or during times of stress and say like the winter months when everybody gets sick etc. Anyway I have been supplementing my 28 month old since he was about 15 months old with an Evening Primrose Oil and Flaxseed combination and not only has it helped it helped his skin too. MOral of the story it is safe to give directly to baby/toddler, the amount that would be excreted in your milk should be way beyond safe, KWIM ?
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