yup, she wants to circ as Kira posted in the little update thread.
her reasons? All the same ol same ol Bullcrap.
"It's cleaner" *Open wound, diaper, yeah sure, that's REAL clean*
"I work in pallative care and I really REALLY hate cleaning intact penises" *and female Genitals are nicer to clean HOW??*
"I Circd my oldest boy and he lived through it" *note, the boy is moody depressed and whatnot. I think someone in the locker room got to him. Majority of kids come from Quebec/Nfld so you do the google for 12years ago and you'll get the picture*
"they won't remember it" *HAHAHAHA*
"I know of too many men/boys that needed it to be done later in life" *Sure ya do, it's called stupid Dr syndrome, it's running rampant these days*
"I find intact penises gross" *I find your attitude gross but I still put up with it*
"Oh Don't you worry we'll FIND the $500 to get them done somehow" *She gets $480/month in EI benefits, she has a $400 student loan to pay, her hubby makes the rest of the cash..you do the math*
Umm yeah, Good way to KICK YOUR HUSBAND IN THE BALLS LADY! She finds her own husband's penis disgusting, how nice is that? No wonder the man doesn't wanna really return home all that often from his course eh? With a wife like that, who needs an enemy?
So, my Hubby is gonna bring it up to HER hubby. HE is assuming it WONT be done, SHE is assuming it is.
Oh yeah, good luck finding a Dr this side of Toronto to do it.
Yeah, I was so devistated by her "choice" that I was absolutely paralyzed with grief the next day. Didn't do a bloody thing except feed/clothe/diaper my child. She knew mommy had a "pomo" *how she sais problem" and snuggled up to me and kept going "pomo mommy? Pomo?" and running her fingers through my hair and rubbing my arm like I do with her when she's having a tantrumy episode.
But you know, I should have expected it right? Scheduled General Anesthetic C-section, not breastfeeding, not even giving a rats butt about bonding with the twins after birth.
And the scary thing? Those two innocent babes have a higher chance of DYING than the average boy. Why? Because STB Twin momma has a bleeding out problem. She hemmorages real easy. So, what's the chances of her passing on the hemmorage gene to those little guys??? Not one *I* am willing to risk. Heck, she'd go, get the procedure done, then by the time she got home, those two precious babies will be dead in their car seats. Bled to death...
I just really need to vent. I honestly plan on bringing this stuff up to her.
What really REALLY chafes my azz? I gotta be civil to her, no matter WHAT decision she makes because my hubby and her hubby are friends and blah blah blah blah blah...whatever...
Now I know what evangelical Christians mean when they talk about "Unequally Yoked"
To Quote Wayne's World I
"ASphinctersaiswhat?"
Oh BTW, personal update here: Hubby n I decided that I should go off the birth control patch to see if my depression gets any better. no nookie? Nah, only for a month or so, till my cycle goes back to it's natural state. Then we'll play Russian Roulette and accept what comes. Basicly we won't actively TTC, but if it happens it happens..and more likely than not, it'll happen LOL.
her reasons? All the same ol same ol Bullcrap.
"It's cleaner" *Open wound, diaper, yeah sure, that's REAL clean*
"I work in pallative care and I really REALLY hate cleaning intact penises" *and female Genitals are nicer to clean HOW??*
"I Circd my oldest boy and he lived through it" *note, the boy is moody depressed and whatnot. I think someone in the locker room got to him. Majority of kids come from Quebec/Nfld so you do the google for 12years ago and you'll get the picture*
"they won't remember it" *HAHAHAHA*
"I know of too many men/boys that needed it to be done later in life" *Sure ya do, it's called stupid Dr syndrome, it's running rampant these days*
"I find intact penises gross" *I find your attitude gross but I still put up with it*
"Oh Don't you worry we'll FIND the $500 to get them done somehow" *She gets $480/month in EI benefits, she has a $400 student loan to pay, her hubby makes the rest of the cash..you do the math*
Umm yeah, Good way to KICK YOUR HUSBAND IN THE BALLS LADY! She finds her own husband's penis disgusting, how nice is that? No wonder the man doesn't wanna really return home all that often from his course eh? With a wife like that, who needs an enemy?
So, my Hubby is gonna bring it up to HER hubby. HE is assuming it WONT be done, SHE is assuming it is.
Oh yeah, good luck finding a Dr this side of Toronto to do it.
Yeah, I was so devistated by her "choice" that I was absolutely paralyzed with grief the next day. Didn't do a bloody thing except feed/clothe/diaper my child. She knew mommy had a "pomo" *how she sais problem" and snuggled up to me and kept going "pomo mommy? Pomo?" and running her fingers through my hair and rubbing my arm like I do with her when she's having a tantrumy episode.
But you know, I should have expected it right? Scheduled General Anesthetic C-section, not breastfeeding, not even giving a rats butt about bonding with the twins after birth.
And the scary thing? Those two innocent babes have a higher chance of DYING than the average boy. Why? Because STB Twin momma has a bleeding out problem. She hemmorages real easy. So, what's the chances of her passing on the hemmorage gene to those little guys??? Not one *I* am willing to risk. Heck, she'd go, get the procedure done, then by the time she got home, those two precious babies will be dead in their car seats. Bled to death...
I just really need to vent. I honestly plan on bringing this stuff up to her.
What really REALLY chafes my azz? I gotta be civil to her, no matter WHAT decision she makes because my hubby and her hubby are friends and blah blah blah blah blah...whatever...
Now I know what evangelical Christians mean when they talk about "Unequally Yoked"
To Quote Wayne's World I
"ASphinctersaiswhat?"
Oh BTW, personal update here: Hubby n I decided that I should go off the birth control patch to see if my depression gets any better. no nookie? Nah, only for a month or so, till my cycle goes back to it's natural state. Then we'll play Russian Roulette and accept what comes. Basicly we won't actively TTC, but if it happens it happens..and more likely than not, it'll happen LOL.
I'll be sure to print this up and leave it at the MFRC.
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