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surprisingly, sex hasn't hurt at all this time. with dd1 i had a 4th degree tear and i hurt for over a year. i was so pleased, dh even more so, when it didn't hurt this time.

we're using condoms & i need to get my new diaphram. it's not that bad. but we are considering having dh get the snip-snip. i think we're done having babies, but we don't want to do anything we'd regret.

unfortunately, af come back as soon as lydia started sleeping 4-6 hrs at night. great for sleeping...bad for my convenience. :