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Went Against Medical Advice to avoid induction/ csection!!!!  

post #1 of 15
Thread Starter 
I did have a run in with a new aggressive OB at my practice Monday. I was 37 weeks, 4 days. I am considered high risk, as I am insulin dependednt GD (since 5 weeks, though I am not true diabetic yet), I am AMA 37, very overweight, hyperthyroid, and I have LGA babies (last was 9#12oz at 38 weeks). I am planning my 1st drug free delivery with the most natural CNM's (IMO) in ATlanta.

I was supposed to have my routine weelky NST and an appt with the midwife. The midwife had to run to the hospital to deliver a baby. My blood pressure was 144/78, which is my highest reading, though 3 weeks ago pressure was 137/75, my baseline is 125/70.. so it was *slightly* elevated. I had NO protein in my urine (not even trace), no swelling (I actually lost 2 lbs). This OB would not even take a 2nd bp reading. Instead, he wanted me to go "ASAP to L&D for 5 hour testing and possible delivery". Since I have been carefully planning and preparing for a natural, non induced delivery with my husband in town (he was out of town for 3 nights)... this did not sit well with me. I completley LOST it, bawling crying. I felt like a "caged animal"... I knew that I did not have pre-clampsia, and all I could think is "I have to get out of here". Then the nurse comes back in, "Dr. so and so wants to check you". I said, "no, I don;t need to be checked". There was NO way that hat man was getting near my hoo hoo!!!!! And what does a cervical exam have to do with high bp.. unless you want to force an early induction?????? So I left with my 3 yo, and went to pick up my 5yo from PK, with orders to check into the hospital after I got my kids settled.

I went home and looked at my charts. I could not believe how "non-high" my pressure was after looking at my chart!!! i also got advice from my frineds and doula. So I did hourly bp readings at home, which were all fine and low. AND I sat outside all afternoon with my kids, neighbors and their kids and enjoyed the afternoon!

I did check into the hospital on Tuesday under my midwife's care to have the testing done. I was monitored for 1 hour.... with a perfect Non stress test, low bp readings, adn blood work that showed No signs of preclampsia at all. I was released 90 minutes later.

It just scares the heck out of me to think what could have happened had I been uninformed and jsut went into the hospital on Monday.. I am pretty confident that I would have not left pregnant, and I'm not sure if an induction at 37 weeks would have worked, so I probably would have had a C. I feel really good about standing up for myself. I just hope I dont; get any retaliation for "ignoring" the orders for 24 hours (like the OB's saying that I now can;t deliver with the MW's)

i am 38 weeks today. Had an u/s today, and everything looks perfect. My Biophysical profile was 8 out of 8. Dh is home now, I have been having on and off ctx for a week now, and I feel like the baby is really low. I am hoping to go into labor on my own within the next few days to avoid and additional medical interventions.
post #2 of 15
Good for you for knowing what to look for and knowing how to take care of your body. I think you made a very wise choice. Sending you and baby some labor vibes!!!
post #3 of 15
Bravo mama!!! It is so wonderful to read a story of someone standing up for themselves and their baby. You did the right thing! I hope that you go into labor here naturally and have a wonderful drug-free birth! You deserve it!
post #4 of 15
Good For you! You are so strong! Be proud that you know your body way better than any OB!!!

Come on Labor!!!
post #5 of 15
Good for you! That's so riddiculous that he wouldn't even take another reading. Geez, that's stupid even by medical standards. I had a midwife appointment yesterday and we were discussing what would happen if I went over 42 weeks (a hard subject for me since it happened last time) and I was talking about it while she took my blood pressure and it was 142/90 - about where you said yours was. This is really uncharacteristic for me, so she had me lay down quietly for a couple minutes and took it again and it was 108/62 - just shows how stress can make your BP fluctuate and I'll bet you were under a LOT of stress seeing that doctor that day.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Here are some labor vibes for you!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Good luck and I hope everything goes well!
post #6 of 15
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Originally Posted by CathToria
I feel really good about standing up for myself. I just hope I dont; get any retaliation for "ignoring" the orders for 24 hours (like the OB's saying that I now can;t deliver with the MW's)

Wow! I am proud of you too!
You did what soooo many other women need to do and should know that they CAN do. Orders? BAH! No one can order you to do anything you are not in the military right?? It is your body, your baby, and you did the right thing. Way to go mama!!

Blessings,
N~

BTW You should have the right to deliver with whomever you choose as well. Talk with your MW and make sure she understands your worries about this pushy OB.
post #7 of 15
Good for you mama! You are the consumer and doctors are there at your expense so ultimately you have a CHOICE! Way to be strong!
post #8 of 15
I'm so proud of you! Good luck and stay strong.
post #9 of 15
how great it is that you stood up for yourself!
post #10 of 15
Gigi, that's awesome! Rock on with your bad self!

I wish all mamas would have the inner trust and guts like you. Your baby is so lucky to have you! :
post #11 of 15
Thread Starter 
Thanks so much for the support.... Now I feel even better about my decision and I am totally empowered to continue to make the right decisions for the rest of my pregnancy.

Going AMA is so NOT a part of my usual routine/personality, etc. I would have NEVER refused a Dr's recomendation with my 1st 2 pregnancies. Being informed and knowlegdeable to so powerful, and addictive! I am not "anit-medicine" or anything... in fact I have some "real" medical concerns and I want to have some medical input regarding my situation (especially my GD). But in my mind, body, and soul.... I just knew that a preclampsia "diagnosis" was just wrong... high bp is not one of my issues, and that was not going to be the "issue" that set the tone for my birth. Had I not been so informed and knowledgable about my body, my gut reaction would not have been that strong. I am so thankful for that!

Thanks again, and I hope my story helps others who may face a similar situation
post #12 of 15
Good for you............ I am so excited to see this thread! I am due with my fourth on 5/28/05!

I went AMA with my third baby. Dates were NOT accurately dating my baby (they used LMP only, rather than my 2 possible conception dates, which were three weeks apart) and so when I "looked" like I might be postdates, I had some NST and BPPs scheduled and nothing came out as a worry, so we signed off against any inductions whatsoever (natural or otherwise) as I so wanted to have my home water birth. I am so glad I was informed and had support of informed mama friends, doulas, and midwives, as the "doctor" that "discussed" the results of my BPP was trying to SCARE me into induction (had NEVER seen me before that day and did not "know" me or my body in ANY way). I was "overweight" pre-pregnancy and so he probably "saw" me and assumed I was huge and needed induced. He was a jerk. My baby was un-officially born 1.5 hours before the 3rd possible due date, based on my last possible conception date, with NO signs of being "late"...

Hang in there, and keep us posted!
post #13 of 15
WOW. I'm so proud of you, Gigi. I'm sure you did the right thing and OH how I wish I had been that informed/strong with my first pregnancy. The OB I had then was SO awful with his decisions, even the nurses were privately disputing him to me (but were too afraid to stand up to him). But, I was uninformed and scared and in horrible pain. If only I had known then what I do now, it could have been so different. Of course, it isn't just the knowing, though, is it? You found the strength to say no.

I agree with the previous sentiment... You Rock!
post #14 of 15
Go Gigi! You know your body better than anyone else and you know what you are capable of. Good Luck to you and I will be praying that you get the birth you are dreaming of.
Amy
post #15 of 15

Way to go, Gigi!!

Thinking of you... keep well and stand up for your believes gal!!
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