I am here! My partner and I have one daughter.
post #21 of 51
5/26/05 at 1:14am
Originally Posted by happyhippiemama
Many men seem to think that if you are bi but marry a man, that the bi-ness suddenly is limited to bedroom activities that they are preferably involved in. :Puke
Originally Posted by wemoon
I think that the possibility is high that I will be moving to be with her... I just can't see this going any other way right now. We are both missing each other desperately. It is honestly such torture...
Originally Posted by cmb123
I'm sorry sweetie.
I just want to chime in with the last thing you want to hear right now. I would really, really, really suggest not up and moving with your kids just yet. I know your heart aches, and you two are in love, but if it's meant to last, it will. Please think about waiting a while before you do this.
I think from what I've read of your other posts that this is your first real lesbian relationship? I'm sure you've heard the U-Haul jokes before, but honestly, they are so, so, true. Us lesbians fall hard and fast.I know my first love made me completely irrational. I was willing to do almost anything to be with her. But the difference for someone like you and me is that we have children to think about. If this girl really is the one, time will tell. Work on building your relationship as 2 people, long distance for a while. See if the feelings hold true long term, THEN think about moving your kids. Any really great, real long term relationship is worth waiting for, and will withstand time and distance.
Hugs to you again. I'm sorry your heart aches.