I posted a while ago about the baby I care for while her mom works.Her mom and I have been friends for many years,and I love her dd very much.She's 8 months old.Today she is going to her ped(local clinic 
: ,this same clinic had her taken away from her mom at birth,long story,why is she bringing her there when there are many,many peds in the area?!?).She's getting dtap, hib,hep b, and prevnar. 
She was supposed to get this done weeks ago,but cancelled the appoinment.Her appointment is at 1:40pm.Her mom has to be at work for 3pm.I'm getting her right after her shots!! : I am so upset.We had this conversation before.If she's vaxing,please find another sitter for at least a few days.I don't vax,and it's not that I'm afraid my dc are in danger of contracting something,I don't want to see this baby hurting!The mom has no idea how she will react.She was in foster care for all her other vaxes.The foster mom(family friend of mine,excellent foster parents) said she was ok,but still,her mom did not experience this first hand.A normal reaction wouldn't be anything new to the foster mom,as she's cared for so many babies,many with serious medical issues.She did say the baby had hard lumps at the injection site for days,if not weeks.I'm scared.Her mom should be dealing with this,not me.Her mom is too busy working(7 days a week).She expects me to pick up those days,and care for her dd.NO.I have my own dc,and I need time with them.I'm just so sad for the baby.She needs her mama through this,not Auntie.I have my autistic son,and my dd also needs me,so I can't give dn the attention she needs and wants sometimes.I feel bad when I have to let her cry for a minute while I change my ds or get them something to eat or whatever.I did wash ds's old sling,so I may wear her today.I don't know if I can physically do it,as I have inflamation in my chest that is being treated but still very painful.I'm just very upset.It's not just the vaxes,but that's the main reason for the way I feel right now.I'm even shaking.
I just got off the phone with her mom.She's going to dose her with Tylenol before the shots,and wants me to give it to her every 4 hours.Is this a good idea??She's leaving soon for the clinic,and is dropping her off right after,even if she gets out early!!I said no,but she just ignored me.I'm done with this.She has a week to find a daycare.I don't want to see her lose her job,but this is NOT my responsibilty!It's hers.She really doesn't understand what it is like to have a child full time.This is her first,and she only had her back at 5 1/2 months old.I think if she would have had her from the beginning,she'd understand more.It's obvious they're not even as close as they should be.They just don't know each other very well,and it's sad.I wish CPS would realize the damage they do to families.
Time to go give my dress my dc,and try to get the peanut butter out of ds's hair :LOL .I want to take them outside for a while,so a bath is pointless :LOL .Thanks for letting me vent.
: ,this same clinic had her taken away from her mom at birth,long story,why is she bringing her there when there are many,many peds in the area?!?).She's getting dtap, hib,hep b, and prevnar. She was supposed to get this done weeks ago,but cancelled the appoinment.Her appointment is at 1:40pm.Her mom has to be at work for 3pm.I'm getting her right after her shots!! : I am so upset.We had this conversation before.If she's vaxing,please find another sitter for at least a few days.I don't vax,and it's not that I'm afraid my dc are in danger of contracting something,I don't want to see this baby hurting!The mom has no idea how she will react.She was in foster care for all her other vaxes.The foster mom(family friend of mine,excellent foster parents) said she was ok,but still,her mom did not experience this first hand.A normal reaction wouldn't be anything new to the foster mom,as she's cared for so many babies,many with serious medical issues.She did say the baby had hard lumps at the injection site for days,if not weeks.I'm scared.Her mom should be dealing with this,not me.Her mom is too busy working(7 days a week).She expects me to pick up those days,and care for her dd.NO.I have my own dc,and I need time with them.I'm just so sad for the baby.She needs her mama through this,not Auntie.I have my autistic son,and my dd also needs me,so I can't give dn the attention she needs and wants sometimes.I feel bad when I have to let her cry for a minute while I change my ds or get them something to eat or whatever.I did wash ds's old sling,so I may wear her today.I don't know if I can physically do it,as I have inflamation in my chest that is being treated but still very painful.I'm just very upset.It's not just the vaxes,but that's the main reason for the way I feel right now.I'm even shaking.I just got off the phone with her mom.She's going to dose her with Tylenol before the shots,and wants me to give it to her every 4 hours.Is this a good idea??She's leaving soon for the clinic,and is dropping her off right after,even if she gets out early!!I said no,but she just ignored me.I'm done with this.She has a week to find a daycare.I don't want to see her lose her job,but this is NOT my responsibilty!It's hers.She really doesn't understand what it is like to have a child full time.This is her first,and she only had her back at 5 1/2 months old.I think if she would have had her from the beginning,she'd understand more.It's obvious they're not even as close as they should be.They just don't know each other very well,and it's sad.I wish CPS would realize the damage they do to families.
Time to go give my dress my dc,and try to get the peanut butter out of ds's hair :LOL .I want to take them outside for a while,so a bath is pointless :LOL .Thanks for letting me vent.
She was happy and playing,and just ate normally.She's in the pack and play since my chest is hurting and I need a break.
