That's just like a man, isn't it? Don't they know how sensitive we are and that we LIKE to look good too? Please don't let his insensitivity keep you from gaining the weight that you and your baby think is most appropriate for your baby's health.
Heck, although he never says anything negatively now, DH does already discuss with me my postpartum training workout. It's taken a few punches in the arm for him to broach it in a sensitive manner, though. I love him dearly but
In his defense, he does tell me regularly how beautiful I am carrying his child, so I can't complain too much.
Do him a favor. When you deliver the placenta, pick it up and smack him with it! :LOL