persehone: it's ok. still hang out here though, as we change our minds so frequently while pregnant!!
recall I was feeling great with UP/UC? now I've got a mw and have seen her once already :LOL I'm no longer making declarations about how birth will be
I imagine it will be UC, and FAST as that's all my imagination can bring up at this point. I'm just waiting to find out. I'd like the mw to file the bc, and collect as much as she wants from my insurance company. I'd like her to party with us over our newest baby, but I really don't want her presence for labor or birthing.
Oh and I agree about the brewer diet. I have no problem with it, if thats the way you'd like to eat. I don't think it makes babies big, either. But it has no real science backing it up AND it's way too much food!! It's unnatural eating, if you're doing it just because your mw or a book told you to...and you don't like or want those foods....
ah well, time to get busy with the rest of the day. I say it's fine (brewer) if you crave and your baby is asking for that. Its fine as a control IF you have previously had HBP and think it would help. ButI'm partial to doing what makes you happiest durring pregnany and if thats ice cream for breakfast and a beansalad for lunch, so be it.
My babies have all bee around the 8.5-9lb mark, I think thats perfect for me.
on another board there was a discussion that would make you ladies SICK! They were toting the benefits of c-sections!! Now, I know there are some benefits...but they were all agreeing (and I'm imagining them sitting around in size 1 capris, with their nails done drinking diet cokes planning their boob jobs) that natural birth is not only "gross and messy and painful" but it CAUSES sexual problems later in life, ROTFL. if anything I think birth IMPROVES your sex life (confidence, comfort and power to get what you need or want) so I said so. So then they started a pool and they were unanimous in agreeing that it is DISTURBING to think of sex and birth as related. I mean, I do live on the same planet with these women. I watch the same tv shows and vote and everything so how can their ideals be so alien to me?? anyone, I thought it was fun/funny and interesting.
have a good afternoon. anyone have name lists to share?