Originally Posted by the_lissa
What evidence? The rant of a really offensive person? I know two people in a similar situation, and the guy keeps saying stuff like OP, and he is so off.
Also...with respect to the "if you have sex, you take a chance on babies": This is true, but many people don't know it. I've known many men, and quite a few women, who honestly believe that the pill is 100% effective, and that there is no possibility of pregnancy.
Anyway, I obviously see this differently than most of you - probably because of a couple of particular cases I've seen, which almost totally destroyed the father's life, while the mom sat around complaining like he'd taken away her pills and raped her then abandoned her. It's made me more than a little sour on this topic.