My DD2 is 9 months also and won't eat anything unless she can pick it up and put it in her mouth herself. Which is a bit irratating to me because I had just put a whole bunch of food cubes in the freezer! lol! ATM she really loves peas, green beans, and carrots along with pasta (loves those wagon wheels and they cook really quick) and cheese ravioli. I will admit, I bought the "toddler" ravioli, but as soon as I have time (sometime soon I hope!), I'm going to try my hand at making some. She also loves chicken (I cook it in the crockpot so it's very tender and then cut into small pieces) too. Oh! And fruit! Loves cut up peaches, pears, and apples

Almost forgot scrambled eggs and hm french toast sticks and bagels. I will also give her an occassional cracker or cherrio to snack on too.
Almost forgot...I have a book by Vicki Lansky called Feed Me, I'm Yours. The list of appropriate finger foods for babies 9-12 months is:
bagels, soft
carrots and other vegetables, cooked soft
Cheeses, soft
Chicken, in soft cooked pieces
custards, soft
eggs
egg noodles
fishe, without bones
french toast fingers
macaroni and pastas
tiny meatballs
meats, tender varieties of lamb, veal, and beef
orange sections with loose membrane removed
peaches, ripe and peeled
rice
spaghetti with meat sauce
toast
vanilla ice cream
yogurt, frozen or regular
HTH!
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