DD got really really sick 2 weeks after her 1st MMR at 18 months. Fever, chills, aches. Nurse told me it was not connected to the vax, which I
felt but did not know, was incorrect information

DS had tremors in the middle of the night after his 4 mo DTaP, which from my research, I
knew was a sign of neurological damage. When I called the nurse the next morning to report the vax reaction I was, once again, told that it was not a reaction.
Since we were in the process of adopting him and therefore required by his guardians (the agency) to get regular WBC and routine vaxes, I called in sick to his 6 mo check, and we were close enough to finalizing by his 9 month that I took a chance and said that due to his skin issues (exzema) we were holding off on vaxes till his 12 month. I never made an appt for his 12 month and by his 18 month we were his legal guardians so I took in letters for both kids files regarding our stance on vax.