Trabot, that' FABULOUS!Thanks for posting this! I hope to make time to do this on New Moon ... and that day, a dear friend of mine is moving out on her own, leaving an umpteen-year marriage ... while I doubt she'll be able to do this ritual on the 1st, it's good to know there's a few days in there that the window is open, so to speak. I'm gonna e-mail her your post right now.
Thanks again! (And oh yeah, every once in awhile I think about your offer to look at my floorplan, but I've been overwhelmed by LIFE these days and haven't been able to get to it. I hope the offer is still on the table, and whenever I do get to send it to you, please know I'll have all the patience in the world ... well, I'll TRY to have all the patience in the world, but I'll be excited, so it'll be hard!)