We used an unknown sperm donor AND an unknown egg donor
: - long story, but my eggs are bad and dp is 49. We considered using KDs, but it turned out to be a lot easier for us (now) to go the unknown route. I am adopted, so I will be able to relate to the feelings the girls may have when they get older about their biological roots.
In Georgia, our attorney informed us, an unknown donor that is ID release can legally still be considered a parent because he is stating when he donates that it is okay if his offspring recognize him as "daddy" when they reach 18. We didn't want to take any legal chances. DP legally adopted the girls when they were 4 months old, so now both of our names are on their birth certs.