We have 4 boys and we are both done having children. The youngest is 16 months and will hopefully continue nursing for at least that much longer. We used NFP to conceive, but now that we are DONE I don't want to take any more chances. He is scheduled for a vasectomy next week but is having second thoughts. He read some horror stories on the web. I don't want to have major surgery or take hormones while nursing. The idea of an IUD that could be painful or "lost" doesn't seem great. I feel like I've been responsible for our fertility for 25 years (yes, we've been together that long) and now it is his turn. Should I encourage him to go through with it?
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6/23/05 at 1:05am