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Hi Ladies ~ We had our son. He was born at 2:53pm on June 15th at home. On the thread from last week I was inquiring about some pretty regular contractions that I was having. I ended up going home around 1:30pm from work after I came back from my lunch walk. They were really intense at that point and I couldn't sit during the contractions. I was really in denial that I was even in labor to be truthfull. So I got home and tried to relax in the bath but got a gnarly contraction and so I was moving around trying to get comfortable - not happening. I actually felt pretty good on my forearms and knees, swaying my hips back and forth during contractions. I called my midwife at 2pm and she came right over in abuot 15 minutes. I was still in denial. So she checked me and said that his head was real low and that I was 9cm!! We called Chris to get him home (he works about 30 minutes away) and then my body started to spontaneously push pretty much right after that. It was amazing.... to have your body doing that. He was born at 2:53pm, crying and breathing... but he was 35 1/2 weeks, and we could tell he was struggling. Chris arrived home about 10 minutes after Joaquin was born and by that time the midwife have just cut the cord and was giving him oxygen. They wrapped him up and took him to the hospital.

Wow... so now we're at Lucile Packard Children's Hospital at Stanford. Turns out Joaquin wasn't peeing and that was very worrisome. He has a problem with the kidneys were the tube running from the kidneys to the bladder is completely blocked on one side and partially blocked on the other. While most people can have this condition and not know about it as long as they have a normal functioning kidney, Joaquin does not... the other one is a pretty abnormal kidney from the partial blockage. He had surgery on Sunday to remove the blockage and they started dialysis on him yesterday. He is looking at the possibility of having a kidney translplant at around one year.

He is such a trooper. He gets stronger and stronger every day. He's beautiful and perfect (except for his little kidneys). He amazes me constantly at how strong he is... he's got an old soul. He's like a little man in a baby body... it's hard to explain. Today we got to the hospital and he was removed from his respirator!! Good news. I got to hold him today finally. He liked it. He loves getting kisses all over his little head and body. While we are looking at a few more weeks here, it might be sooner. It really is a day to day thing here at the NICU. Just have to take the good and bad. Our families are here and we have so many people praying for him. I can feel all the prayers and thoughts surrounding him when I am near him.

Just wanted to give you all an update. Please keep Joaquin in your thoughts and prayers... it's really working! I'll write more later. Take care everyone!

Much Love and Many Blessings.
post #2 of 24
Meghan, I'm so glad to see your post as I have been worried about you and Joaquin. You sound so positive, and it sounds like he is being well taken care of. I'm glad you got to hold and kiss him today, and that his respirator was removed too! I will keep you, him and your family in my thoughts. Take care of yourself
post #3 of 24
I will keep you in my prayers for sure. Congrats on the great birth experience and best of luck to your little guy!!!
post #4 of 24
We will be praying for your little one's kidneys. We have the same blockage problem with my 2 year old daughter and actually just had another check up today. She will have surgery this summer.
post #5 of 24
Wow what an amazing birth story! For it all to happen so fast and go so well - that is great! Congrats on your new little man - we will definitely be praying for him and hope for a speedy recovery!
post #6 of 24
Congratulations Meghan! I am praying for nothing but the best for your little guy!
post #7 of 24
I just wanted to add my congratulations and best wishes!!!
post #8 of 24
I'll be keeping you all in my thoughts - you sound so strong mama - he's a lucky little guy to have you.
post #9 of 24
So good to hear from you Meghan!
and congratulations, and welcome to Joaquin!
you're all in our thoughts, and hope he's able to come
home soon.
post #10 of 24
YAY Meghan!!! So happy to hear you are okay and that Joaquin is doing well under the circumstances, that he's a strong little ball of kisses. Keep us informed. I will keep him and his kidneys in my thoughts....and you, too, of course!
post #11 of 24

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Congrats, Megan, and WELCOME little Joaquin!

I will be sending many prayers for your son's full and complete recovery.
post #12 of 24
Congratulations to you and yours! He sounds like a wonderful being! I love the name Joaquin.
post #13 of 24
congrats meghan! i am so happy to hear from you and hear that joaquin is doing well under the circumstances. i'll be keepin your fam in my thoughts

" been spinning round the wheel of life, and i've made one more night"
post #14 of 24
Wonderful news, our thoughts are with you for Joaquin's recovery.
Congratulations to your family.
to you all
post #15 of 24
Congrats! What a wonderful birth story.

My best wishes to Joaquin for a speedy recovery! He will be in my thoughts.
post #16 of 24
Congrats Meghan! Sending Joaquin "get well" vibes. And please keep us updated on his progress when you can!

Cathy
post #17 of 24
Congratulations Meghan, and welcome to Joaquin! What a fantastic birth experience, and I'm so glad to hear that Joaquin is doing well, all things considered. It sounds like he is getting very good care, and how wonderful that he's off the respirator and you were able to hold and kiss him.

You, your baby and your family are in my thoughts and prayers . Keep us posted on how he's doing!

Shana
EDD 7/29/05
post #18 of 24
Congrats on your lovely birth experience and strong baby! What a lovely way for him to have been born. I've read soooo many birth stories about babies who came a bit too soon, but they all pulled through beautifully and ended up being the picture of health. Hope you are also taking care of yourself, postpartum mama!
post #19 of 24
Meghan, I am so sorry you have to go through the surgery and stuff right now You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Congratulations on Joaquin, and I hope someday he knows how strong and lucky he is to have a mommy like you!

Congratulations !!!
post #20 of 24
congratulations!! and I'll keep your little baby in my thoughts...
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