Dzenjen,
Thanks so much. Part of my problem is that nothing else really makes me feel better about not having sex. DH can be sweet and solicitous, and wonderful, and I'm still unhappy about not getting any. SIGH.
We talked over the whole safety issue, and then had terrific sex. Once. About a month ago. I can't really say that I'm suffering from insecurity about being sexy while pregnant, just that I feel like he finds me as sexy as a root vegetable any time, at any size. Unfortunately he just perceives it as another responsibility and if I try and talk to him about it he's feels more pressured and has less sex drive.
Thanks so much. Part of my problem is that nothing else really makes me feel better about not having sex. DH can be sweet and solicitous, and wonderful, and I'm still unhappy about not getting any. SIGH.
We talked over the whole safety issue, and then had terrific sex. Once. About a month ago. I can't really say that I'm suffering from insecurity about being sexy while pregnant, just that I feel like he finds me as sexy as a root vegetable any time, at any size. Unfortunately he just perceives it as another responsibility and if I try and talk to him about it he's feels more pressured and has less sex drive.
In between a cosleeping (or co-notsleeping) toddler, a travelling husband, home reno and part time work for me, yeah...I want/need it BAAAAD but usually fall asleep before we can do anything about it. Waaaaah! With my first PG we were able to act on our uh...urges...whenever, wherever. Now it's usually on our LR floor or in the babe's unused bedroom :LOL Ahhh parenthood...
. Alas, this is the last time.... The hard thing is that even though my drive is high, my energy is NOT, and sleep simply wins out. Vicky (my plug-in "helper" 
) is getting quite the workout these days, cuz it requires no energy whatsoever, and takes all of 30 seconds! Anyway, we always find that doggie style works best for us -- never quite got a handle on the spooning one, either.
