Wemoon -
Hang in there girlie! sounds like you are making progress

. Sorry I can't offer any help, other than say have you looked at the Curve personals? no kidding. My DP and I were lookin the other day for fun and were wow'ed by how cute and cool everyone sounded

Take a look and let us know!
Medusa -
Since you live super-close to me, you wanna be "fixed up"? Aw come on! It would be fun! I could even offer to babysit while I send you on one blind date a week with my disfunctional friends. :LOL
We have a Rainbow Parents group here in town, and there are a couple of unpartnered moms in the group too. You want to join? we have a Yahoo group if you want to check that out.