I dressed ds in a pink-flowered sleeper when he was tiny, only because it was a nicely worn cotton and it looked super comfy.
DS looks amazing in pink and lavender, since his skin is a warm brown color. He also wants to wear makeup in the morning like his mommy, so I pretend to put the eye crap on him and then paint his lips with gloss. He says he feels "pretty." What difference will it make? He's very much a boy and there's not much I can do to change that! He also likes my studded pointy-toed goth girl heels.
btw, I dated a male for about a month but lost interest very, very quickly. Nobody interests me at the moment. Too much f'ing work and my son brings me far too much joy. Based on experience, dating a woman isn't all that different, though I wouldn't mind a little 'fun'