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post #1 of 25
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I have now heard it all, a women just told me that she considers seeing a child twiddling its mothers breast while nursing no different then if the child were to climb on a mans lap and stoke the mans penis!

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post #2 of 25
that's disgusting.
what a pervert you were speaking with.
post #3 of 25
Oh, that makes me angry. Honestly, I don't know how anyone could think that! I can't stand it when dd tries to twiddle (I always pull her hand away and block it when she tries, it truly drives me NUTS). How anyone could possibly think such an annoying thing (which, of course, is a totally natural thing for babies to do in order to further prevent mom's fertility from coming back so there won't be competition too soon) is pleasurable is completely beyond me!
post #4 of 25
My baby likes to pull my hair. What would she call that -- foreplay?

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post #5 of 25
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Originally Posted by Satori
I have now heard it all, a women just told me that she considers seeing a child twiddling its mothers breast while nursing no different then if the child were to climb on a mans lap and stoke the mans penis!

: :ignore

That's just dumb :
post #6 of 25
Wow, that lady obviously never breastfed.
post #7 of 25
how about when he digs his tiny, dagger-like fingernails into my areola and flesh while he's feeding??? Is that supposed to be fun too? :LOL :LOL

What a
post #8 of 25
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Wow, I hope you never have to talk to that woman again.
post #9 of 25


That is the silliest thing I have heard today. Thanks, I needed that. Where do people get these crazy ideas. Sounds like she is... um.... frustrated?
post #10 of 25
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Originally Posted by HerthElde
How anyone could possibly think such an annoying thing (which, of course, is a totally natural thing for babies to do in order to further prevent mom's fertility from coming back so there won't be competition too soon) is pleasurable is completely beyond me!
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post #11 of 25
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Originally Posted by Jadzia
My baby likes to pull my hair. What would she call that -- foreplay?
Mine likes to kick and slap me - she must be into S&M.
post #12 of 25
Wow, we can only dream.
I would MUCH prefer to find twiddling arousing than painful and annoying, too bad that's not reality.
post #13 of 25
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Originally Posted by pease
Mine likes to kick and slap me - she must be into S&M.
Yeah my toddler is too. Too bad he's so twisted and this lady is so normal. :LOL
post #14 of 25
That has to qualify as about the stupidest statement I've heard for at least the last month, maybe longer.

What did you say to the pervert?
post #15 of 25
People who make comments like this freak me the hell out. To think of an innocent baby and a natural act like breastfeeding in such a sexual way really bothers me. It makes me wonder about the person who is having these thoughts. :
post #16 of 25
Obviously a woman who has never been twiddled by a toddler. Yeah, its so, um, pleasurable. :
post #17 of 25
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Originally Posted by sistermama
Obviously a woman who has never been twiddled by a toddler. Yeah, its so, um, pleasurable. :

:LOL

For sure, right?! Uh-yeah, I really enjoy it....uh, NOT

That lady was not very smart
post #18 of 25
all I can do is :
post #19 of 25
That is beyond disgusting!!! Some ppl are so twisted!

And clearly a woman who has never been twiddled by a toddler. LOL. I am so relieved that I finally helped DD end the twiddling habit (though it seems like the last few weeks she's been trying to take it up again *grr*).
post #20 of 25
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Originally Posted by SKK
how about when he digs his tiny, dagger-like fingernails into my areola and flesh while he's feeding??? Is that supposed to be fun too? :LOL :LOL

What a
Oh yeah, I just love that!! NOT! :LOL


As to the woman, not worth even a nasty smiley from me. Yuck.
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