My ds is 17.5 months.
Structured Events: Mon mornings we have toddler storytime at the library & then stay & play with the other children. Tuesday mornings we go to a toddler skating event where you bring a ride-on toy & toddle around the rink & play with other children & dance & do the Hokey Pokey, Limbo, Chicken dance....... Wed mornings we have a toddler storytime at B&N, and stay & play with other kids after. Thursday & Friday are more open to visiting family, outings, that sort of thing. I'm planning to start going to our community parent resource centers, where you play with other toddlers & go to family events. We also are members at a children's museum, which we do once in awhile.
At home: we tend to watch some TV
, and movies, play with blocks, look at books, play with toys. I just bought 2 books on making play dough and other activities for my ds's age group, so we'll be doing more tactile & artistic stuff now. And we nurse A LOT at home.
I don't feel that I do enough with him at home. That's why I try to get out into the community more. This summer it was easier cause we went out in the yard and swam in the baby pool, played in the sandbox, walked to the park..........but now the weather's crappy and we do watch a LOT more TV & movies.
I feel GUILTY about that.