I didnt read ALL the reponses (I know, I know...but its 3 pages)
but we have been using cloth tp for about 2 years now, and all I do is use one of those turn 'machine' type things with one long piece of cotton muslin, and we wipe and turn it and by the time that section comes back around, its usually dry and ready to be used again. I wash it about once a month or so...or if the whole thing looks 'discolored'

just kidding. we have been using cloth tp for a few years, but i get wipes now from melissa at 'spooky kitty collective' (its a yahoo group) and we must have 100, but I only wash once a week usually, and I am pregnant and have to pee very very often. we also use the same ones for wiping babies.
we use one of those really tiny diaper pails I got at Burlington Baby Depot (its a store) its very skinny and fits next to the toilet, and has a seperate handled lift pail inside to dump the wipes in the wash. our bathroom is too small for our main diaper pail which is always in the laundry room. there is never a smell and i just throw the wipes in the main pail when it gets filled every few days.