Regarding the whole issue- I just go by my own comfort level and always have.
I am not comfortable having strangers anywhere near my genitalia.
I'm 30 and have had two pap smears/pelvics in my lifetime. I wasn't even sexually active until I was 28. Hell no was I going to buy into the "get yearly exams from 18 on" because that's when MOST people are sexually active (or whatever). I don't happen to be most people.
The first time I went, I was 25 and cried to my mother afterwards. It was a horrible and degrading experience for someone who had never even had sex (not that it isn't for people who HAVE had sex). The second time, I was 28, and thank God, had met and married my husband (who was also a virgin) by then which, for whatever reason, made it easier for me.
I'm considering boycotting future exams, yearly or pregnancy related. I definately will go no less than three years in between them. I do check my own cervix for charting purposes. FTR, I have never once had a UTI or yeast infection. ??? Maybe because I've only had one partner and limited exams?
Whatever someone else wants to do is fine by me!
I am not comfortable having strangers anywhere near my genitalia.I'm 30 and have had two pap smears/pelvics in my lifetime. I wasn't even sexually active until I was 28. Hell no was I going to buy into the "get yearly exams from 18 on" because that's when MOST people are sexually active (or whatever). I don't happen to be most people.
The first time I went, I was 25 and cried to my mother afterwards. It was a horrible and degrading experience for someone who had never even had sex (not that it isn't for people who HAVE had sex). The second time, I was 28, and thank God, had met and married my husband (who was also a virgin) by then which, for whatever reason, made it easier for me.
I'm considering boycotting future exams, yearly or pregnancy related. I definately will go no less than three years in between them. I do check my own cervix for charting purposes. FTR, I have never once had a UTI or yeast infection. ??? Maybe because I've only had one partner and limited exams?
Whatever someone else wants to do is fine by me!





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