4 years & still grieving

[luvmyangel72301]

We lost our first daughter, Tiffany, 4 years ago, and it is still tough. That was such a rough year. First, I lost a dear friend (Judi) then my cousin (Scarlett) Then an Aunt (Betty Jane) and then my daughter. I have went on to adopt a daughter and have a bio one, but I still miss my first baby girl. I also have 2 boys. It really affected my older son because he understood what was going on, but my younger one didn't really understand. I am thinking of getting back into counseling but am afraid of being put on meds. I just don't like taking meds. I know I will likely benefit from them though. Just wanted to share.

[Eggie]

I'm sorry for your loss

Getting back into counseling could be good for you, maybe you wont need any meds or can try other natural choices. There are amazing mamas here very literated in natural remedies.

[Got_Cloth]

Big hugs mama...
Please dont be so hard on yourself. EVERYONE grieves in thier own way at their own pace.

Please if you need couseling, find one who speicailises in deaths.

I am in AZ too. If you want to chat. let me know.

Have you been to and MISS meetings. I went shortly after my loss. and I found it to be comforting....

PM me if you want!!

[gaeasun]

I am so so sorry. I know how awful it feels. Please know that you are in my thoughts.

We hit 4 years ealier this year. We have days where we feel worse, and days where we feel better. On the days I feel better, I feel guilty. It is a terrible cycle, isn't it?



Kim

[applejuice]

s to you

I lost my sister when I was six years old and she was almost three.

I am now 51, and I know she would be 48 if she lived...I have grown and lived with that hole in my family line up and in my heart all of my life...so sad...my mom refused to ever talk about it...she never even put a headstone on her place in the mausoleum. Wierd.

The fact that you still acknowledge her life is good. YOu will always miss her.