Restoring and the lazy man...

[LoveChild421]

Let's see if any of you can help me out with this one

DP decided a few months ago that he wanted to start restoring- I was VERY happy to say the least (I had wanted him to restore for a LONG time) well he has done absolutely nothing to start the process- I have bookmarked a ton of websites for him, talked to him about it, etc

I was just wondering how to get my super lazy man to actualy DO IT!!! I'm getting at my wits end- are any methods of restoration faster/easier than others? how can I motivate him to do it?

[Frankly Speaking]

I don't think it's lazyness but that he just hasn't committed himself to it yet. It takes a great deal of dedication and to have that dedication, there has to be a goal. It's virtually impossible for a circumcised man to imagine or understand what he is missing and so the goal is equally impossible for him to visualize. That's something he may never be able to do.

There is also no quick or easy way. It's long and difficult. It takes the preserverance of super glue. There's just no way around that.




Frank

[susienjay]

Well I'm right there with you. My dh decided to restore about 3 years ago. He wore the t-tapes a lot for 2 months but then he started getting discouraged. He's maybe regrown 1/2" of skin but even that 1/2" has made things so much better though. His slow growth is because he rarely wears the t-tapes. He'll wear them for a week or so and then stop. He gets discouraged easily and I agree with Frank- he doesn't really know what he is missing out on so its hard for him to see the end results. He makes the most progress when I actually make all the t-tapes for him and actually help him put them on. : Dh looked at a lot of the restoration devices himself and he had decided on the t-tapes. He thought the others looked like medieval torture devices plus he's pretty frugal and tape and elastic are cheap. He's cut pretty darn tight for some of the other devices out there anyway.

[Shaunam]

My DH is the same way. He started the restoring process after a very long and emotional talk. He did it for about two weeks and stopped. He tries off and on occasionally, but he just isn't very motivated. We've talked a few more times about it. He may or may not eventually do it and I've come to terms with that.

[susienjay]

Originally Posted by TLC Tugger

There's an incredibly easy method called the Your-Skin Cone. It won't grow him a lot of skin, but it will get his glans and inner skin supple and sensitive. Once the effects kick in, he'll want to restore in earnest.

You can get a cone on ebay.

-Ron

I've seen these on ebay but never shown them to dh. We had ordered o-rings a year or two ago and dh is cut too tight to wear them. Would the cone work for a guy that was cut really tight?

[MamaTT]

[AntoninBeGonin]

Originally Posted by errejasu

I've seen these on ebay but never shown them to dh. We had ordered o-rings a year or two ago and dh is cut too tight to wear them. Would the cone work for a guy that was cut really tight?

My husband was cut fairly tight and this device seems to be working for him.

CAT II RO

[LoveChild421]

Originally Posted by TLC Tugger

There's an incredibly easy method called the Your-Skin Cone. It won't grow him a lot of skin, but it will get his glans and inner skin supple and sensitive. Once the effects kick in, he'll want to restore in earnest.

You can get a cone on ebay.

One thing that might be holding him back is fear of getting TOO sensitive. You can assure him that you would be delighted to alter your intimacy pattern such that you could work on him quickly, then while he's getting ready for round two, he could work on you. With the cone method, the cure to excess sensitivity is to just stop using it. You'll be back to normal in no time.

As a restorer for 4 years, I can attest that intimacy is just worlds better, and nothing like excess sensitivity has caused any problem for my wife or myself.

-Ron

Thanks Ron! I will be checking into that! Extra sensitivity DEFINATELY wouldn't be a problem- that's actually one reason I really want him to restore- He takes far more time than I do now...