WOHM / SAHDI was quickly reading through the posts and noticed that there was another Mom out there with a hubby that stays home often with the kiddo.
I have a wonderfully flexible job and actually took my ds to work with me for a while (6 months or so), but once he got more vocal and squirmy we started looking into daycare options in the area. Once we finally found one that clicked, my husband lost his job. After the intial angst, my husband and I sat down and ripped our budget apart again. He wanted to stay home with Ryne. That was 3 months ago.
Although he is job hunting again, as we just fell into a new house, he is determined to work 2nd or 3rd shift so that he can still spend his day with Ryne.
Ask you hubby what he wants, you may be surprised and he might just want to stay home.