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Has anyone heard about this book yet? It's fairly recent, by Juliet B. Schor, who also wrote The Overspent American and The Overworked American.

I am about 3/4 of the way through it and there is so much in it I am dying to talk to other parents about. I happen to be going through a period of being not thrilled with the latest purchases I've made for ds and frustrated with his daily requests for toys and his thinking that every time we go shopping or every time he goes to a birthday party or family get-together he may get a toy so starts agitating for one till it makes me want to scream. This is one area of parenting that I feel truly overwhelmed by and sometimes I feel as though dh and I are trying to hold back an unstoppable tide and I just don't have the strength to do it. And ds doesn't watch any TV at all!

Anyway, the book is about the commercialization of childhood and the negative effects of turning our children into consumers. Loads of creepy info on how companies do their extensive, amazingly sophisticated research on kids and develop their strategies on how to market stuff to kids. ANd how pernicious, how invasive, how incredibly subtle and devious it all is! Sure, the reaction to this can easily be "It's alarmist" and I can see myself having this reaction as well, but I have got to say this is one well-researched and backed up book.

So I'm throwing this out there in the hope that other people here have either read the book or will look into doing so. It's also a weirdly fascinating read, disgusting and compelling at the same time. For example, the marketers have an entire language referring to stuff they do and stuff about kids that I find both of the above like: "age compression" = marketing stuff originally for older kids to younger and younger kids i.e. why 6-year-olds adore Britney Spears; "kidspace" = the conceptual area of what kids think about and are concerned with; "future market" refers to exposing very young kids to images of stuff (mainly alcohol and cigarettes) so that they will be more likely to buy them when they're older, and so forth. Clearly, kids are a goldmine and this book is all about such mining.
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I read that book a while ago. I was really creeped out thinking that parents would actually allow people to watch their children bath so they could market more products to them.
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Thank you for bringing this book to my attention! It sounds like it would be right up my alley. I love nonfiction - especially if it gets me all worked up!
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Well, Pease, this book definitely will do that. I hadn't reallized it was out for a while, I thought it was new.

Anyway, back to figuring out how to shield my son from all this. One thing I wouldn't do is allow marketing researchers into my home let alone into the bathroom alone with ds. I was thinking, also, what was that mother thinking? (there's a part where a researcher sits on the toilet while the kid is bathing)
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Anyway, back to figuring out how to shield my son from all this. [QUOTE]

I've been thinking about this a lot! About a year ago we shut off our satellite TV. We still watch DVDs but much more rarely and there's no commercial exposure. I have to think this in itself will reduce 75% of commercial exposure.
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Has anyone read "The Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children form Nature Deficit Disorder" by Richard Louv? Its a great book...basically talks about the importance of unstructured play time outside. Check it out.
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Both of these books sound great, especially The Last Child in the Woods. We live off grid--and spend so much time outdoors. We considered moving to town when my dd was born but it was my overwhelming want for her to feel truly free in nature, as I do, that allowed me to rationalize all the "normal" modern amenities she will not have.
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TM, that's why we don't let him watch any TV at all and that's true, that is most of it, but as we live in a big city you would be amazed at what he picks up from: ads on buses, billboards, stuff on other kids' backpacks, sneakers, toys, etc. For example, his good friend has a Darth Vader scooter. He's fascinated with it and we had banned all Star Wars stuff because ds in particular has trouble with getting too excited by violent stuff and we are trying as hard as we can to get him to not use his body and get into this violent fighting play that he can't snap out of (he has special needs, too long a story to get into here) and more than other kids we have to keep him away from this stuff. Naturally, what he can't have the most he wants the most. And darth Vader scares him. I have had to stuff catalogs we get with scary halloween costumes right into the trash before he sees them. So, it's still problematic. The upshot of it is, reading this book made me realize how vigilant we have to be now, and a glimpse into the future of how strict we're going to have to be, about screening what media he's exposed to. This is a big thing for me because I'm not the vigilant type and have ambivalent feelings about a lot of our culture (i.e. I actually do like the Justice League and other comic-book characters) and so have a hard time banning them altogether.
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