I had my first at home-in water. The second at home in water, and hope to have this one at home as well.
When we were pg with #1 what got us was--why do we have to go through a (potentially) negative hospital experience just to be able to do what we want-and knew was safer for us and our baby.
What we learned later was that we were so lucky finding our mw--that not all mw are your dream mw--they are real people just like there are good and bad obs. Keep doing your research, check recommendations, and go with your instinct.