Eric, congrats!! My 6 month old son is beautifully intact!
Be sure to make those stickers/signs/HUGE posters that say NO CIRC for the diapers and such if you're delivering in a hospital!
Yes, babies come with a manual... they are the manual.
You're doing great already following your parenting instincts!
One thing I was going to post before I saw your 'update' was...
Is your wife posting on any 'mainstream' boards? If she is, you may want to either encourage her to come HERE instead, or find out what's being said on those mainstream parenting boards. If you think the circ issues are bad, so are the feeding 'schedules' and sleep 'schedules' and cry-it-out info...
BUT congrats on your victory!!!!!! Your (potential) son(s) will thank you!!!