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today would have been my DH 33rd bday  

post #1 of 29
9/23/05 at 11:08am
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RIP sweetheart


The Larger Circle- by; Wendell Berry


We clasp the hands of those that go before us,
And the hands of those who come after us.

We enter the little circle of each other’s arms
And the larger circle of lovers,
Whose hands are joined in a dance.

And the larger circle of all creatures,
Passing in and out of life,
Who move also in a dance.

To a music so subtle and vast that no ear hears it
Except in fragments.
post #2 of 29
9/23/05 at 11:10am
to you and your family on this difficult day.
post #3 of 29
9/23/05 at 11:41am
My heart goes out to you today.

Much Love & Peace~

Lisa
post #4 of 29
9/23/05 at 1:59pm
Be gentle to yourself today.
post #5 of 29
9/23/05 at 2:49pm


post #6 of 29
9/23/05 at 3:14pm
Much love, mama.
post #7 of 29
9/23/05 at 3:35pm


You have been in my thoughts a lot, and in my prayers. I'm sending you extra love today.

That poem is beautiful.

post #8 of 29
9/23/05 at 3:40pm

beautiful poem
post #9 of 29
9/23/05 at 3:46pm


Hoping you can feel his presence even beyond your touch. Hugs and strength to you.
post #10 of 29
9/23/05 at 7:41pm


I'm truly sorry for your loss
post #11 of 29
9/23/05 at 7:44pm
What a beautiful poem. I am truly sorry for your loss. Much love to you.
post #12 of 29
9/23/05 at 8:19pm
You have been in my thoughts. s
post #13 of 29
9/24/05 at 1:16am
Happy Birthday Darren

I am so sorry April. Many hugs to you on this day of rememberance.

Peace Darren

Love to you April.
post #14 of 29
9/24/05 at 2:24am
post #15 of 29
9/24/05 at 2:30am
Much love coming your way on this day.
post #16 of 29
9/24/05 at 4:48am


May you somehow gain strength from this experience.

s
post #17 of 29
9/24/05 at 1:28pm
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thank you mamas your support means so much.

surprisingly his bday was easier than our wedding anniversary (which was last wed) to deal with. instead of mourning him I celebrate his life and that I got the chance to know & love him. I found some old letters & poems he wrote me when we first met, they made me laugh and cry to read them.
post #18 of 29
9/24/05 at 2:39pm
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Originally Posted by rainbowmoon
thank you mamas your support means so much.

surprisingly his bday was easier than our wedding anniversary (which was last wed) to deal with. instead of mourning him I celebrate his life and that I got the chance to know & love him. I found some old letters & poems he wrote me when we first met, they made me laugh and cry to read them.
April, you are so courageous and strong. I am in awe of the way you are dealing with such a difficult situation. Your dh was blessed to have spent the last years of his life with you.
post #19 of 29
9/24/05 at 5:37pm
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dalai_mama-well I don't feel very strong, mostly numb for the most part. but thank you I am just trying to keep on keepin' on, for my kids sake iykwim. plus I know my DH just wouldn't want me to stop LIVING my life because he died, though truthfully I have no idea what to do with myself at times. I do feel his energy around me, so it brings me great peace.
post #20 of 29
9/25/05 at 12:57am
you are strong, though, mama, you are.
Thinking of you and your sweet family tonight.
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