Uhh, Mary-Beth-are you trying to tell us that the man is your husband or other close relative??? IF so, OMG!!
My sons were alway mistaken for girls...even as toddlers...we were at a friends house when they were moving...she hangs out at motheringdotcom too
and here is my 4 yr old in his brothers hand me down worn clothes, dirty from running around in the muddy weather, and with short (but curly) hair....
and the moving guy asks his older brother "what's your sister's name?"
His older brother laughed his head off and ran to tell us what the moving guy asked him!
They both do have the long lashes, and the 4 yr old has the most beautiful blue eyes...but how could he think I would dress a girl like that! hmmmph!
I can only hope my 4 mo dd gets those lashes!