Originally Posted by MerryOne
And the replies were along the lines of you'd have no common sense to like this type,
way to go on not judging.
You said the above, and then you said this:
|I don't see it as sexual and please DON'T put words in my mouth!
I didn't see any replies that stated "You have no common sense if you like this diaper". People were just stating their opinions, like you are. Some did not like it, just as you do like it. Other's liked it along with you. So if anyone is putting words in people's mouths... I definitely didn't put any words in your's, I even quoted you saying something about feeling judged as a kinky person. Those were your words, not mine. I didn't say it was kinky.
Much of what you are saying are non sequiturs to me, as in does not follow. So I cna't really respond. Like this:
"I am alternative, I think it's sick that most ppl in here think that it's something that someone who use to show off their sexulity with their child "
So why don't we just agree to disagree? All this thread is, is opinion. You don't have to like mine and I don't have to like yours. And as far as judgments, yeah I make judgments every day. Like about what is better to feed my kids, what is the best use of my money, what I want to expose them to, what I want to do with my life, etc. I just don't view judgment as a bad thing. I see that term used so often as a (negative) sweeping reference to anyone who has an opinion someone else doesn't like, then you're "judgmental" and that is a very bad thing. No one in this thread said anything personal to you, you turned it into something personal yourself.
The last thing I will say on this thread (I promise, because you get your hand slapped around here if you say too much and I don't want to get the thread deleted), is just that you are a much better judge of what is Gothic than I am. I'm sure you have gathered, that I was never Goth. So I will concede that you know much more than me on that particular topic. I'm positive that's how the maker of the diaper intended it and that's cool for all of you who like it. I just personally don't and wouldn't put it on my babe. That's all.