I was eager to participate in these threads at first, but I don't want to debate. I was looking for support on how to make my marriage better. Now I have a serious question, and I would like to try to fix it from a Biblical perspective. DH and I have recently made friends with another couple. Since we don't have many couple friends, it has been great to go out with them and just socialize. They also have a son about our son's age, and they get along great. The problem is that my Dh has a crush on the female half of this couple. They email each other every day and flirt (in a way I feel is inappropriate). She dresses very provocatively and is very pretty. This relationship scares me. I have taken more care of myself: dressing prettier, doing my hair up. I have also been more obedient and kept the house cleaner. I try to email him from school between classes just to let him know I'm thinking about him.
I don't want to bring this up with him in an accusatory manner. But I am really scared of the progression of this friendship. I don't want to drive him into it. I want him to know how valuable I am to him, so he will desire me more than her. What do I do?
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