awesome midwife appt
I've been having contractions (stronger than the braxton hicks I've been getting since month 6) for the past 9 days or so.
I had an awesome appt with my midwife yesterday, and she said to stop *looking* for labor, it will come find me!
This just helped because I've been so focused on WHEN this is going to happen, that I was making myself miserable with each contraction thinking, ok is this it? is it now? when, when when?
I feel like a huge weight has been lifted since that appt and I've stopped paying attention to the contractions. I feel like I can get on with my life and this will just happen when it's ready.
I know this was a venting thread, so I'm not saying anyone is wrong for venting, but I just wanted to share my good experience as it gave me that extra boost of patience I need to get through however much longer I have.
Lastly, just remembered something else a friend said "remember, no woman in history has ever STAYED pregnant!"
