These are not really options!!!
I tried, tried to keep an open mind about the recent post of suggestions of doing _everything but_ consuming the placenta (which, remember, does not need to be raw but can be taken in gelcaps!), but here is why some of those things are not options for me...not making excuses, just stating the facts:
*Live-in helper or hiring a pp doula? you've got to be kidding...no offense, but those are luxuries that are beyond my wildest dreams. I am scraping my pennies together to pay for my home birth (worth every penny, too)...I just almost laughed out loud. It was not long ago that I was on WIC. Not exactly the income bracket that hires live-in help or pp doulas. Again, no offense...nice if you can do it...
*My family lives far away and both mine and dh's families are still young and still very much, by necessity, attached to their own job schedules...dh has 2 weeks basically unpaid that he's taking, and my mom will be here for 2 days, then his mom for 2 weeks, which is nice, but also tiring...
*The amount of supplementation you are suggesting is also something many cannot afford; i take rainbow light prenatals but that is even a luxury item.
*Freezing food in advance--OK, i managed to freeze 1 baked ziti and 1 zucchini bread. I have a 2.5 year old and am a WAHM. We're lucky it's not cereal _every_ night...let alone making _extra_ meals to freeze!
*As if the housework were even a consideration...or being wonder woman...with the level of exhaustion, depression and nursing problems I had to tackle, it was about survival...I could have cared less about housework!
*I've battled severe insomnia since I was a teenager..."sleep when the baby sleeps" is like salt in a wound when I hear it. (I do take homeopathic coffea and that helps, but not completely...i have been working on this with my homeopath for 2 years now!)
*Ohmigosh I _DESPISE_ "new moms' groups". I have been to a few of those, support groups and also "Mommy and Me" classes (thanks to my mom's generosity) and I am like a cat scratching the walls begging to get out...they are _not_ for everyone...
*When you have a hormonal imbalance as severe as we women do with PCOS, you can eat as healthily as you want, take all the supplements you can, drink a gallon of water at each nursing..._nothing_ will take you over the hump except drastic measures. And the measures were _drastic_. Thankfully, and I am so thankful, I was able to nurse ds for 15 months until we mutually weaned. But at any time, had I not had the healthcare team I had (and had my case not been so interesting to them!), I could have given up and been entirely within my rights to do so.
*I do have to say you were _absolutely RIGHT_ about the sugar thing. Women with PCOS should avoid sugar like poison, since much of PCOS has to do with insulin resistance...and insulin overload has much to do with other hormonal imbalances...
Again, I am not trying to be mean here, but I just have to ask...
Why not just consume the freaking thing? It's _free_, my midwife's assistant does it so I don't have to, and it's common in many societies to do it and from all accounts it works. Once I went to a conference about placental remedies and heard this German midwife's accounts, I was sold. If it's the repulsion I have to deal with, I'll deal with it. Heck, our society also tells us that our vaginas are not adequate to let our babies out, but we fight against that, right?! So this is something that I personally _was_ grossed out by, but when I heard the effects it has, I knew that I had to do it no matter how i or anybody (including dh, who just "doesn't want to know about it") feels to the contrary.
I guess the bottom line is that for someone like me who has a particular set of hormonal risk factors for PPD and BF problems, the usual advice just doesn't cut it...and you just do whatcha gotta do. I'll do anything not to go through what I did last time.
Maybe I'm just particularly sensitive tonight because I feel like baby's coming any _minute_ and I am hoping and praying for a good PP...
Peace...I really do mean it...I'm just a little wound up!

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