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post #1 of 34
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NAK...
So I took DD#2 for her 2 mo check up (really only because I wanted to know how much she'd grown since 2 weeks) and I told the Dr. I wan't going to be immunizing her today. I said that I am still doing my research and would decide what (if any) shots she'd get at a later time. Then I pulled out Stephanie Cave's book and asked if she'd read it.

Her:'" Oh no, that's all propaganda"
Me: " It actually makes a lot of sense...are you saying you've never read it?, how do you know?
Her: "Well do me a favor, if you are going to do your research, make sure it's actuall scientific research, not a book that's junk..."
Me:"you know this is written by a pediatrician..."
Her: OK, I want to go over the vaccines with you...

Then she proceded to tell me that she could care less about the Hep B, but that everything else was so important because her brother had meningitis and has diasabilities because of it, and she had pertussis a while back and it was horrible. ( ah!But they are both alive to tell the story..)And I better not take DD anywhere because she has "no immune system" after the age of 2 mo(but I'm going to bombard it with 6 vaccines at once?) and that I absolutley cannot travel...

Then I said I was really leery about the ingredients in vaccines and the way in which they are manufactured using animal cells, but especially the mercury, and get this, she holds up her fingers in a pinch and says "yeah, but it's just a little bit of mercury, a can of tuna fish has more"
I said "well first of all I'm not feeding my 12lb. 2 mo old a can of tuna, but even if she did ingest tuna(mercury and all) it goes through the digestive system and liver, leaving little mercury to the bloodstream, but when you inject it right into a baby it goes straight to the bloodstream crossing the blood/brain barrier, and one shot may have less than a can of tuna, but she would be receiving four shots today. Not to mention tuna isn't even considered safe anymore and it's consumption should be limited."

Then when the appointment was over I asked her for all of the leafletts that come withthe vaccine and she said "sure". She comes back in the room with a one page handout from the Children's hospital of Philadelphia and the first heading says "Decisions about vaccine safety must be based on scientific studies rather than the conflicting information found on the internet, in magazines, and in books, but few parents have the background in microbiology, immunology, epidemology and statisitics to separate good scientific studies from poor studies...." (Ok, this is not the literature I asked for...) So I asked her again, she said if they weren't "thrown away" she'd try to get them. Later sending in the nurse with them.
She also had me sign a waiver saying I would not vaccinate my child today (which was fine), but whe I asked her should I decide to vaccinate in the future and wanted to request the vaccines be separated or use the ones without mercury she said that was not the way they ordered them, and that they could not special order vaccines for me even at my expense (yeah right), but another pediatirtian in the area may (so, what are you hinting at lady?)

Shouldn't Dr.s be better educated?
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Remember how much of their education is paid for by vax and drug companies.

-Angela
post #3 of 34
If she's arguing this vehemently about choosing not to vax, makes you wonder how many other things you may disagree on... Sounds like finding a new understanding ped may be in order.
post #4 of 34
At least you now know her stand on the vax issue. I'm glad you stood your ground and declined any vaccines today.
post #5 of 34
Thanks for the entertaining story! You did great, mama! Way to make your ped think! (I don't mean think as in reconsider her stance on vaccines, but think as in have a conversation with an informed, intelligent patient/mom of patient).
post #6 of 34
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Originally Posted by caligirl
And I better not take DD anywhere because she has "no immune system" after the age of 2 mo(but I'm going to bombard it with 6 vaccines at once?) and that I absolutley cannot travel...
Oh really. So all babies before vaccines had no immune system and that's why there are now no humans on the earth to overpopulate it. Are we all holograms then? Is her family tree a hologram.

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Shouldn't Dr.s be better educated?
Actually, I think they should have less education and more commonsense.

Even an idiot like me can see through her stupidity.
post #7 of 34
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Originally Posted by caligirl
She comes back in the room with a one page handout from the Children's hospital of Philadelphia and the first heading says "Decisions about vaccine safety must be based on scientific studies rather than the conflicting information found on the internet, in magazines, and in books, but few parents have the background in microbiology, immunology, epidemology and statisitics to separate good scientific studies from poor studies...."
Ask her please, why it is that the medical journals who publish poor studies, who ostensibly have all these qualifications allowed them to get through so that mere mortals have to then decide whether X study or Y study in the same journal is "good" or "poor".

Or don't they have the brains either?
post #8 of 34
And as an add on to that, what business do the research people have to BE in medicine, do studies and write them up, if the are so stupid as to write "poor" articles which are accepted by medical journals that don't have the brains to know a good one from a poor one in the first place.

On second thoughts, we know the answer to that.
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You guys are great!
post #10 of 34
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Oh really. So all babies before vaccines had no immune system and that's why there are now no humans on the earth to overpopulate it. Are we all holograms then? Is her family tree a hologram.


I think you did a great job too, not letting her intimidate you. I wonder too, how does she know something is junk and propaganda if she has never read it?
post #11 of 34
You did a great job mama!

I am just curious how she got pertussis, I would think she would have all the vaccines she recommends, maybe they wouldn't give it to an adult. Hmmm, what if she got it after she was vaccinated, hmmmm
post #12 of 34
Stephanie, too funny!


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If she's arguing this vehemently about choosing not to vax, makes you wonder how many other things you may disagree on... Sounds like finding a new understanding ped may be in order.
Amen! this is why I dumped the last ped. I figured if she was going to happily push my daughter into harms way, I could not trust her during a time I didn't have to research.

Way to go momma. You did awesome. I hope you find a more supportive ped. I think her hint was to tell you she knew she wouldn't be making moola off of you and for you to go waste some other peds time. How dare you make her work hard for her money! Just shut up and take what SHE says as gold because YOU are too stupid. /laughing hysterically
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Thanks!
post #14 of 34
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Originally Posted by steffanie3
I am just curious how she got pertussis
I was thinking the same thing...I can't imagine that she isn't vaccinated herself. Didn't that protect her from pertussis?
She sounds so much like the previous ped. we had for my kids. I am currently searching for a new one. Our ped. basically told us we didn't need to come for the well baby visits because they were for giving shots.
She was pro-CIO and told me it wouldn't hurt my son if he cried all night--he'd eventually go to sleep. So, we haven't been back in a long time.
I'm going to make an appointment to interview a family doc. that was recommended by my midwife--only because we have another coming and I just want someone to check that the baby is on track from time to time.

Good job standing up for what you know is right for your baby! It takes a lot of courage!
post #15 of 34
I'm guessing that the ped did not get a pertussis vax lately... Isn't there the huge push to scare everyone about unvaxed adults to herald in the new booster? I'd hazzard a guess that if given the chance (based on her experience with WC), she'd wax poetic about the need for the adult booster.
post #16 of 34
The pertussis vaccine isn't 100% effective. It reduces cases of pertussis (aka whooping cough) in the vaccinated population, but does not completely eliminate it.
post #17 of 34
Just a sidenote:
She asked you to sign a waiver saying you weren't vaccinating today...does that mean you signed saying you were liable?

If so, you should come armed with a sheet that says SHE'LL be professionally and personally liable if something goes wrong when/if you vaccinate.

You should never have to sign a form at the doctors office--you only have to abide by your state laws...

Great story--good for you for sticking to your guns!
post #18 of 34
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I am just curious how she got pertussis, I would think she would have all the vaccines she recommends, maybe they wouldn't give it to an adult. Hmmm, what if she got it after she was vaccinated, hmmmm
I was wondering the exact same thing!

Good for you for standing your ground!
post #19 of 34
I just wanted to say, in fairness to the ped, that I would probably be pro-vax too if my brother had disabilities related to meningitis.

Her experience probably has a lot to do with being adamant. Just like OUR experience of seeing kids with ASD after vax influence our decisions. KWIM?

Of course, its still good to switch because you want to work with someone who has a similar philosophy. I did not find her comment about another ped being more receptive to that offensive, because as a professional she should encourage you to find the best fit for you and your child.

XOXO
Beth
post #20 of 34
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I just wanted to say, in fairness to the ped, that I would probably be pro-vax too if my brother had disabilities related to meningitis.
-BethSLP

What kind of logic is that?? You are presuming that vaccines actually protect against meningitis. The evidence is very thin on the ground for this.

There is much stronger evidence that having adequate amounts of vitamins in your body, especially vitamin C, is the real pivotal factor when it comes to susceptibility. I have known 2 adults who got meningitis, and both of them got it at the end of periods of prolonged stress. Vitamin C is burned up by stress.
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