So...dh and I are going to NYC (our former home) this weekend to visit friends and family. We have dinner plans on Friday night with a couple with whom we are very close (my bf from high school, now married to a mutual friend of dh's from college--he's the one who introduced me and dh; we introduced him to his wife, my friend) and another couple. We're not so close with couple number 2--the woman and dh were very good friends in college, but now we see them only 2-3 times a year at most and dh talks to her VERY occassionally. We really wanted to tell couple 1 about the pregnancy, even though I'll be just shy of 11 weeks and we haven't heard a heartbeat or anything yet. They are people whom we would definitely tell if we had any problems or a m/c. We did not, however, plan to tell couple #2.
What to do? We only get to NYC once a month or so, and we'd really prefer to tell people in person. We probably can't arrange to meet couple #1 early, since we're driving in from DC and everyone else will be coming straight from work--it's too many schedules to coordinate. Couple #1 is also going out of town first thing the next morning, so we won't have a chance to see them again.
So...tell everyone, even though we hadn't wanted to tell couple #2? Hold off on telling couple #1, even though we really wanted to? Secret option #3?
What to do? We only get to NYC once a month or so, and we'd really prefer to tell people in person. We probably can't arrange to meet couple #1 early, since we're driving in from DC and everyone else will be coming straight from work--it's too many schedules to coordinate. Couple #1 is also going out of town first thing the next morning, so we won't have a chance to see them again.
So...tell everyone, even though we hadn't wanted to tell couple #2? Hold off on telling couple #1, even though we really wanted to? Secret option #3?
