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post #21 of 25
Someone said self-discipline is key. I think they're right on, but it sure is difficult to learn it as an adult!

No advice - I sure understand though!
post #22 of 25
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I've formulated a calendar with daily and weekly chores on it. Some for me, some for SO. It's just so tough b/c he doesn't really know how to do anything around the house. His mom did EVERYTHING for him, and now tells me how much she regretted it.

He has said that he wants DS to learn all of these things that he didn't, and wants to assign the boy age appropriate chores once he's ready. I was shocked and thrilled to hear this from MY Carlo!! Oh, how dreamy!
post #23 of 25
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Originally Posted by 4evermom
Have you found the Decluttering Forum here yet? I spend the time that I should be cleaning reading it. Somehow it makes me feel like I've done something . I think the forum is listed under Natural Family Living. There have been threads about exactly how many clothes one should own, and other interesting things.
Yep those forums inspired me!! I was reading about a challenge that some of the people had for getting rid of 150 things by Thanksgiving, so I recently started one to get rid of 160 things by the New Year. That was only 8 things a day (it was the 11th when I started it) which feels so much more manageable than knowing that I have to get rid of everything!! And, suprisingly, I've even got the pack-rat DH on board (at least as much as he gets on board with most stuff...).

You might even make it a challenge between the two of you. I'm such a competative person, that this would work for me so I mught just have to try it. See who can get rid of the most stuff over a given weekend (and take it to the thrift store or wherever so you don't have a chance to go back through it...). That way you give yourself a time frame so it doesn't seem overwhelming and you get stuff out of the house!!

HTH
post #24 of 25
A flylady tip that sticked and helps a LOT - do it even if it is just a little bit.
I mean sometimes I dont mop because its such a big job - but if you get a wet rag and wipe the spots that are bad hey it is better than nothing.
I am good at keeping the house orderly and used to think that it was 100% well done or not at all. Now I dont do big cleaning as often but right now for example I came back from picking up downstairs real quick. And tonight I will clean the 1/2 bath - takes me 5 min - done. Every little bit helps. Then have a place for everything and toss toss toss. I am tossing and donating ALL THE TIME!
post #25 of 25
I am a horrible housewife! I hate to clean, I procrastinate, I don't have high expectations. I don't want to be this way but I am. I have one thing I have gotten better about - dishes - we don't have a dishwasher either. My routine I have established is after breakfast, my daughter usually plays by herself so I do all the dishes, clean the counter and stove top, sweep the floor - I am forced to do that b/c she throws food on the floor, I hate stepping on wet fruit and veggies!
Then, do whatever we are doing for the day, while cooking dinner, we NEVER eat out, it is way to expensive and really not very healthy - I do dishes while it is cooking, this also prevents any chance of food burning. Some nights though, my daughter is an attention hound so I can't accomplish this, so they will just have to be there for the morning.

I have no suggestions for washing clothes, I cloth diaper and I am forced to wash those daily, my supply isn't so high that I can slack off on that, but this hurts us for clothes b/c it seems that it takes most of the day to get a load of dipes done, I prewash, then a couple hours later I will wash, God forbid I forgot to clean off a poopy diaper, then I have to start all over b/c there will be chunks of food (spinache, kale, tomatoe) on everything.

But I'm thinking that the post-it note idea would be good.
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