Im just curious whether or not this is a good reason to UC. I just know what will happen if I have my baby at the hospital.. Ive had my other two children there, and while everything was okay, it was far from ideal! I just dont think I can afford a midwife.. but Im scared to UC. Mostly because Im not sure I will be able to relax enough and stop thinking so that I can labor. Dh would be there, but he would not be very educated about it because its just not his thing. He doesnt understand why I just dont go to the hospital. Would a doula friend be able to attend a UC, or is that unethical for them, or wrong some way? I would definitely need someone there for support. What if I labored at home for as long as possible, with intent to go to the hospital.. but decide that I would just rather stay home? Does this ever happen? Sorry for all the wacky questions.. Im really just trying to decide on what to do and how to have the best birthing experience since this will likely be my last.
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11/4/05 at 4:43pm